maysj18 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 When you realize the person you're seeing dated really hot people before you? Ive never suffered from low self-esteem, but I saw my guy's ex tonight and she is really cute. She is also super tiny, which I mean I'm small too, but I have way more curves than her. Where we haven't been intimate yet, I find it a little unsettling..I don't know. I wasnt expecting her to be as pretty as she was.
Feelin Frisky Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 No offense but that seems rather daft to me. She could be a quirky pain in the neck with all manner of personality shortfalls. Yet you think she a bit better looking than you and you're intimidated It's really not about measurements of such superficial things. You didn't say enough to draw any further conclusions--like why they broke up, who dumped whom, or whether he was dumped and still prefers her. But assuming is was just a relationship that didn't work out, why not take it as a plus that your with someone who thinks you're worthwhile and desirable on the level with someone you think has all the goods? Pat yourself on the back and keep your chin up.
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 This is one of those really annoying things about being a guy. It just seems like the comparison start getting made as soon as the picture is seen, not sure If guys do it too but I know girls def do. If you date a blonde, and your new gf is a brunette, she thinks you're into blondes only. If she's asian then she's confused, or If she's tall she thinks shes too short, etc.. I would try not to think too much into it, you don't know anything about the person other than their looks and since she's an ex he doesn't just see her for her appearance, he's used to that...so he's not making any direct comparisons or what not, he didn't choose to be with you because he sized you up next to his ex.
leftfordead2 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 When you realize the person you're seeing dated really hot people before you? Ive never suffered from low self-esteem, but I saw my guy's ex tonight and she is really cute. She is also super tiny, which I mean I'm small too, but I have way more curves than her. Where we haven't been intimate yet, I find it a little unsettling..I don't know. I wasnt expecting her to be as pretty as she was. Is he doing something unconsciously to make you feel this way?
LZ2000 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 There is a reason why that pretty girl is your boyfriend's ex. Not everything can be judged on looks alone, I can testify to that, my ex is an incredibly stubborn (and i suspect attention whoring) woman who looks "normal". And there is nothing in this world that would make me want to make me introduce my ex to any of my potential girlfriends ever. And it's not because she looks "normal".
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