Canguy Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 If a girl asks a guy out and sets a time and day, and the guy says to the girl, "its a date", is there anything wrong with that? I mean the fact that the girl is sorta indirectly asking the guy out on the date, wouldn't she feel embarrassed? Also, is it common for a girl to ask guys out or? Link to post Share on other sites
Nightsky Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 You're overthinking everything. Are you a guy who got asked out by a girl? Did you say "yes" or "no?" Is this all some hypothetical problem thats been troubling you? I wouldn't worry about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Canguy Posted March 4, 2012 Author Share Posted March 4, 2012 (edited) You're overthinking everything. Are you a guy who got asked out by a girl? Did you say "yes" or "no?" Is this all some hypothetical problem thats been troubling you? I wouldn't worry about it. lol, yea it did in the past, but want to know for my own knowledge, thats all. And yea I did say Yes, but when I said "its a date", she said "no dont bug me!", and next day when I asked her she put out atitude. So I also wanted to know if she wanted a date or just a friendly outing. But again, this is a general question about wanting to know if its common for a girl to ask a guy out kinda thing. Edited March 4, 2012 by Canguy Link to post Share on other sites
Nightsky Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 lol, yea it did in the past, but want to know for my own knowledge, thats all. And yea I did say Yes, but when I said "its a date", she said "no dont bug me!", and next day when I asked her she put out atitude. So I also wanted to know if she wanted a date or just a friendly outing. But again, this is a general question about wanting to know if its common for a girl to ask a guy out kinda thing. It really depends on the situation. No rule to this. If you liked the girl and it offered you alone time to get to know here and do date type things it really doesn't matter what its called. Link to post Share on other sites
oldguy Posted March 4, 2012 Share Posted March 4, 2012 If a girl asks a guy out and sets a time and day, and the guy says to the girl, "its a date", is there anything wrong with that? Oh hell no there is nothing wrong with that! I mean the fact that the girl is sorta indirectly asking the guy out on the date, wouldn't she feel embarrassed? Not at all, I've been asked out & took it as a huge compliment. Also, is it common for a girl to ask guys out or? It's not that uncommon & even if it where there's not a damn thing wrong with a girl who's not afraid to ask for what she want's. Your not intimidated are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Canguy Posted March 4, 2012 Author Share Posted March 4, 2012 (edited) No there's nothing wrong with that, in fact, you should be very clear about that it's going to be a date. Then you both know where you stand. If she doesn't want to date you, then she'll tell you and you'll know you've been friendzoned and can move on. So yes, save yourself time by saying "it's a date". Yea so thats what I said, "its a date", and then she turned it down. Next day she didnt respond well when I confirmed once again for the "date", and she was hesistent so I didnt even bother calling her. The day after she texts me saying, "what happened we're supposed to go to the movies". At that point I said this chick is playing games, she doesnt want to date and is hesistent on going, and yet she tells me why I didnt call for the movies or whatever. Maybe she just wanted a friendly outting, and by me using the word 'date', she didnt want that. Thing is this chick showed me signs of liking me, and then shoots me down, wtf am I supposed to think. I wont go into detail, but about a month later, she trys to sleep with me, but she took me on such a roller coaster (im a jackass I know for being played) I didnt really feel infatuated at that point. Is that even normal for a guy to feel that way her spreading her legs and **** coming on strong lol? Next day I see her, she ignores me and talked bad about me to her friends. Edited March 4, 2012 by Canguy Link to post Share on other sites
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