agrj26 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Hi- I have been dating this girl for 4 months now and it seemed like both of us were falling for each other. We did have occasional little arguments whenever she called rain check on our dates but it was pretty much sorted out then and there. This week, she had turned cold on me all of a sudden and hardly replied to my text messages or returned my calls. I had made a reservation for dinner on Friday and she even said Yes the day before. Come Friday, she just didnt show up for the dinner and didn't even reply to my texts or voice messages .I just sent one text saying I am baffled she did this and wished her good luck. But its just killing me as towhy she did that to me and want to find out the reason. At the same time I want to avoid contact and save myself another insult. Please tell me what to do...
HeartOnSleeve Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Wow, that is awful... she is rude and dating karma will get her. Save face and move on; however that is easier said then done
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 She seemed to have found somebody else, doesn't sound like you really had peaked this girls interest all that much. She shouldn't have been cancelling on you and taking rain checks. You seem way too passive though, you're way too understandable and reasonable, a lot of women will chew you up and spit you out for being like, especially if they're just with you in the first place out of being lonely or feeling bad after the last guy they dated. Sorry man, but you've just gotta take it and walk away from it. Seems like you were way more interested in her than she was in you and you didn't notice of the signs and her feelings weren't mutual during the process. There's nothing you can do, and the reason isn't important, there's no reason that will make you feel better. She wasn't the right one for you, that's all you gotta know, don't hold onto her, she's not holding onto you, that's all that matters.
Author agrj26 Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 Thanks for replies. @ Smileface - Yes.. I am pretty sure everything is fine with her.
CC12 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 You got stood up, not dumped. You're the one that dumped her with the "good luck" text, which is probably for the best anyway. Just continue with no contact. Whatever explanation she might give you all comes down to one fact: She didn't want to be with you.
HHC Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 That's not behaviour that I would enjoy in someone I am dating. 4 months, cut your losses. Move on.
Yookie Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 What were the arguments about? Maybe she felt the issues you were having were deal breakers?
gaius Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Make another reservation and this time take her sister, mother or best friend.
sid3 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 You got stood up, not dumped. You're the one that dumped her with the "good luck" text, which is probably for the best anyway. Just continue with no contact. Whatever explanation she might give you all comes down to one fact: She didn't want to be with you.[/Q There you go. Yep, dating sure can be a rough sport at times.
LZ2000 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 I agree, move on and don't look back. Plenty of people, both men and women can be like that sometimes.
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