Say Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Here is my previous thread, as it goes into my heart problems and declining sex life: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/316002-i-think-my-lack-sex-life-ruining-my-relationship I'm normally a confident guy. Its just lately, i've been very paranoid that my girlfriend may perhaps be losing interest, and its very confusing. First off, because of our declining sex life she told me she doesn't feel as aroused around me lately. Yesterday i tried to be sexual with her, and she told me she wasn't in the mood. We made out for a little while, and she pulled back and said she wanted to just talk and ask me about my day. She told me she was really tired, and literally fell asleep in the next two minutes. When she woke up, she was really testy, we went to dinner, and got in a bit of a fight. We made up, and went to my house. After cuddling and watching a show for a bit, she said she felt she should go home soon because she was really tired. This shocked me, as she's never opted to go home early before. She looked at me and said, "Unless you want a little something something before i go?" and gestured towards sex. I was still a little worried, declined her offer and took her home. I don't know, i'm just a bit worried. She doesn't seem to want to have sex or make out as much as she used to, however i just could be overreacting. She always initiates our hangouts, plans ahead, whines when i have to go to work, texts me immediately when she wakes up and such. I just have this bad feeling in my gut, and everytime i see her now i just feel anxiety and i hold back and just worry that something bad is going to happen. Lately she's been obsessed over this band, constantly talking to her friends about how sexy the lead singer is. She's just never said anything like that persay in the past 2 years. I mean, she's still emotionally invested towards me, open and everything. I just have this fear in my stomach. The lack of sexual intensity and the sinking feeling in my gut make every encounter i have with her an uncomfortable one lately. I know for a fact there isn't another guy. There's nothing like that, i would put my life on it. She doesn't have many male friends, and the ones she has are gay or completely whipped by their girlfriends. Its just, we broke up once in the past. There were signs i chose to ignore. Obviously, they were very apparent and i was just trying to hold on. But, i was also a complete ass back then, and our relationship is much different now. Its just that feeling in my gut feels all too familiar. Perhaps its just some trauma from the last breakup making me paranoid.
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