brokenheart88 Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 my ex and i have been on and off all of last year. and right before my birthday he made it clear to my best friends that hes over me and just wants to "hookup" that she should find me a new boyfriend so i could move on. when she told me, he got angry... ive been trying to move on but its hard. right around valentine's day he decides to text me and start flirting. he even started to comment on my facebook and tease me like he used to when we were dating. i dont understand what his game.. whats going on? why is he doing that? im trying not to look too much into it, but its soo hard when im not even a tiny bit over him.
g450 Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Have some self respect. Go NC. He probably just sees you an an option for sex. You dont want to be that. Lots of guys out there that would treat you much better than this player.
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 He just wants to hook up and you are very fragile right now and he knows it. All he has to do is call and you could very well go running to him-----and get hurt. Avoid his calls/texts. He made it clear to your friend what he wants.
JJ72 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 I agree with the above comments. Cut him loose completely. Delete and block him from FB. This is the only way you can move on and heal. you deserve better
radiodarcy Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 (edited) i agree with the above posters. chances are he found the single life and hooking up to be more of a challenge than expected so now he's trying to fall back on you. my ex did the same thing to me a few months ago. started IM'ing me; calling me by the pet name he had for me. turns out all he wanted was to hook up. when i realized that and made it clear that wasn't going to happen *poof* he went. i haven't heard from him since. don't fall for it. stay NC. Edited March 6, 2012 by radiodarcy 1
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