ffw Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 So, yesterday I went out with friends to a dance club. We met two girls & started talking. We invited them to our table for few drinks. After getting comfortable, we started dancing as a group. At this moment, we were dancing infront of the dance floor & the place was getting packed heavily. So, after some time, I asked one of them, to dance with me on the dance floor but she politely refused (saying her health is not well). I could see that she was interested. Ok, no problem. Then couple minutes later, I started talking with the 2nd girl. We were all talking to each other since we were in a group. Yup, you know what's coming . I asked her to dance with me on the dancefloor as well. She refused politely also. Ok, no big deal. We were still dancing as a group having as a blast. Here's the part that really confused me. At the end, the 2nd girl approached me & said she has to leave. Then she asked my cell number & said she will call me. I gave her number, but I didn't understand the situation. Why did she declined to dance on the dance floor? Since she could dance in the group, why she could not dance separately? If she was interested, why did she ask my number? Change of mind. Any comments......
Author ffw Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Update on the situation. Yesterday, I got message from her (2nd girl) saying that she's going to a bar with her friends & would like to meet us. However, my friends are not sure about the meeting. I am a foreigner here & can speak her language brokenly. On the other hand, I know she can't speak English. I don't want to go alone & also, since my friends are not sure, I guess I am left with only 1 option. I have to invite some of my other friends to accompany me. Anyways, I sent her a message (in her language) saying "I will come but I come not sure about my friends". Let's see how it goes. Any suggestions are appreciated.
fencesitter Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I don't know where you are, but this might be a cultural misunderstanding. In some places, women do not go off with men they don't know. Even to the dance floor. Enjoy the group dates and don't be pushy. See where it goes!
oldguy Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I don't know where you are, but this might be a cultural misunderstanding. In some places, women do not go off with men they don't know. Even to the dance floor. Good point & I'm left wondering why your friends don't feel comfortable or "not sure" about the meeting.
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