Leigh 87 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 I love partying. While I woulr much rather do it with my boyfriend, if he is not available and friends offer me a good night out, I will definately have fun without him. What I WILL NOT do, is get blinde drunk enough to be taken advantage of, and do something I would regret. I have blacked out before, whilst drinking, and the fact I cannot remember things means I would not have more than a few glasses of wine.... not shots, not getting smashed. I also would not flirt, or dance seriously with men. I have had funny, fun guys dance with me before... they were cool though, and my boyfriend even came and danced with them and me. If alone, I would not even dance with a guy, unless it was part of a group, with my female friends... I do not want my boyfriend dancing with girls, unless it is with a group, and it is not the type of dancing he does when single. WOmen who like to party can do it alone, as long as they - have some self respect and decency - do not lead guys on. If the conversation is flowing well, they should mention their boyfriends name soon, so as to not lead guys on, perhaps. Although, guys sometimes hate it when girls assume they are cracking onto them haha. Oh well, can;'t always win can we?
Leigh 87 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 ZEN GIRL - I agree. Just because attractive people and alcohol are involved, no need to cheat. I admit, it is very hard to trust in these circumstances!!!!!!!!!!! At first, with my b/f, I was very inecure when he partied without me, with attractive girls around him. In fact, on a recent cruise, he and his mate hung out with two of the hottest women on the boat. Both more attractive than I am ( I am hot, but not 10's like them). He did nothing. I was scared sh(tless. I have since learnt, that if a man has TRUE integrity for your relatsionship to work, he WILL MAKE IT WORK. I think cheating is a real weakness of character, and can be avoided, preferably by not getting too drunk... Although my boyfriend was VERY DRUNK, many times away from me, out partying... and he never did anything.
Red Arremer Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 Generally speaking it is probably innocent, here is my take on clubs from my own observations: Women go to clubs because they like clubs. Men go to clubs because women like going to clubs. But in any event I figure this is no worse than a married guy going to a strip club. 1
fishtaco Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 I don't think it's a big deal. Women like to get all dressed up and go out. 1
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