fetish1980 Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 It's getting kind of frustrating. I've been single for about a year now, still young enough (early 30s). But nowadays, i meet a woman going out, we have an interesting conversation and flirty but it seems like most of them are usually taken. They'll be with their girlfriends and dressed real flirty, heels, and the whole nine. Now, i'm not saying that married women should just be hermits and die. But are they usually "looking" for something when they go out? I just can't really imagine a woman who's happy being out there in the streets. Opinions needed (i.e. Married women who go clubbing) fetish
donnamaybe Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 "...out there in the streets..." Really?! Whether in a R or not, girls just wanna have fun sometimes. For some that means a book club, for others scrapbooking, for others dancing. You could find a gal looking for whatever it is you alluded to doing any of those activities. A gal could find whatever you are talking about while grocery shopping. 3
Author fetish1980 Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 "...out there in the streets..." Really?! Whether in a R or not, girls just wanna have fun sometimes. For some that means a book club, for others scrapbooking, for others dancing. You could find a gal looking for whatever it is you alluded to doing any of those activities. A gal could find whatever you are talking about while grocery shopping. that's what i'm saying. It almost feels as is they're teasing us. And "out in the streets" is slang meaning "out there, not at home!" It just sucks. it seems like the availabilty of women has just gone down.. Either married or lesbo. It bites! fetish
donnamaybe Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 that's what i'm saying. It almost feels as is they're teasing us. And "out in the streets" is slang meaning "out there, not at home!" It just sucks. it seems like the availabilty of women has just gone down.. Either married or lesbo. It bites! fetish They're out there. Hell, there are three young, beautiful, intelligent college students intermingled in my office right now, and none of them is in a committed R.
Author fetish1980 Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 Best bet is to stay away from them. They're no good. i usually lose interest in a woman once she tells me she's married. I don't care how good she looks. I don't need that drama, but i still get disappointed and then reminds me how i'm the outside looking in and everybody's taken. Sometimes makes me missing my ex even more and regretful i didn't get back with her. You know why they are there. and that doesn't really make marriage look too promising does it? I exchanged numbers with a woman not too long ago and she told me she was married. I wouldve taken her home that night, but when the alcohol wore off, i said to myself... She's married! If i participate in this, what goes around comes around! fetish 1
Woggle Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Just think about this next time you wish you were in a relationship. At least you are not their husbands. 3
whichwayisup Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 It's getting kind of frustrating. I've been single for about a year now, still young enough (early 30s). But nowadays, i meet a woman going out, we have an interesting conversation and flirty but it seems like most of them are usually taken. They'll be with their girlfriends and dressed real flirty, heels, and the whole nine. Now, i'm not saying that married women should just be hermits and die. But are they usually "looking" for something when they go out? I just can't really imagine a woman who's happy being out there in the streets. Opinions needed (i.e. Married women who go clubbing) fetish In the streets? How is a married woman who chooses to go have some fun, an evening out with her women friends become in the streets? I'm not a clubber, don't dance..But, I DO go out with my women friends, though we tend not to go chatting up men. We sit and talk, catch up and laugh amongst ourselves, sometimes guys approach us, try to talk/flirt but they realize pretty quickly none of us are interested, let alone interested having any type of conversation. 1
Author fetish1980 Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 In the streets? How is a married woman who chooses to go have some fun, an evening out with her women friends become in the streets? refer to post #4 in my reply to donnamaybe. I'm not a clubber, don't dance..But, I DO go out with my women friends, though we tend not to go chatting up men. We sit and talk, catch up and laugh amongst ourselves, sometimes guys approach us, try to talk/flirt but they realize pretty quickly none of us are interested, let alone interested having any type of conversation. The difference is, much of these women seem open to anything. I'm usually the one who throws a wrench in it once they reveal they're married. Except for one time i got hustled, a girl flirted and told me it was her birthday and asked for a drink. We chit chatted for a few while we were waiting to get served but no more than 30 sec after we got our drinks, she reveals she was married. I had the "SUCKER" lollipop flashing in my head that night. LOL fetish
Woggle Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 I am surprised there haven't been comments about how we men are rightfully getting a taste of our own medicine.
Author fetish1980 Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 In the streets? How is a married woman who chooses to go have some fun, an evening out with her women friends become in the streets? Look, nobody is saying married women can't have fun, i'm just expressing a little frustration when it seems like most women I talk to are already taken, and they flirt to get what they want just like the single girls do. I am surprised there haven't been comments about how we men are rightfully getting a taste of our own medicine. how are we getting a taste of our own medicine? I'm actually an alright guy and don't like being punished for what all the other *********s have done. fetish
Woggle Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 how are we getting a taste of our own medicine? I'm actually an alright guy and don't like being punished for what all the other *********s have done. fetish It doesn't matter. You are a man and therefore must be punished for other men's sins. 1
donnamaybe Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 But if it's a case of simply going out to laugh with the girls, there's tons of other places besides going to a club, where you know the people there are basically having sex on the dance floor with their clothes on. My friends and I don't dance like that.
TheSingleGuy Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Married men and women have no business being in bars. Period. End of discussion. It's just that simple. 6
donnamaybe Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Look, nobody is saying married women can't have fun, i'm just expressing a little frustration when it seems like most women I talk to are already taken, and they flirt to get what they want just like the single girls do. And they are wrong for doing so. If you are going to the "meat market" type clubs, you will find a larger percentage of low class people. how are we getting a taste of our own medicine? I'm actually an alright guy and don't like being punished for what all the other *********s have done. fetish Don't listen to what a damaged person who chooses to wallow for the rest of his life in negativity.
donnamaybe Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Married men and women have no business being in bars. Period. End of discussion. It's just that simple. Says the single guy.
donnamaybe Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 That's just your girl power suit talkin. Ooooo, is that like the one Wonder Woman wears? Golden lariat and all?
xxoo Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Married men and women have no business being in bars. Period. End of discussion. It's just that simple. Even if they go out as a couple? No dancing for married people. End of discussion! OP, I think you are meeting a certain type of married woman, and she may be up to no good. The more typical women that go out with friends probably won't mix with you at all, and you won't even notice her. Then again, there is a type of woman who never goes out, never does anything for herself, and then when she does get a chance once every 5 years or so....she may look like she's gone wild to you. But really, she's just letting loose, and she has absolutely no intention of ever doing anything inappropriate. She just wants to have fun, in the bar, with her friends, and some of that fun includes talking to other people in the bar, looking hot, and drawing attention to herself. Dancing with other men goes over the line for me. If she's rubbing up against another man, she's up to no good. But please notice that isn't what MOST married women do when they go to a bar. 2
donnamaybe Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Yes ma'am. My sweety would love that! Where can I get one? He just loves role playing!
donnamaybe Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Now if they go out as a couple then that's fine but most married women who are on the prowl for fresh meat are not going to want to be dragged down by their "boring" husbands. She chose to seclude her life because she wanted to. Is it fair to her husband that she wants to go out and "let it loose" with loads of men surrounding her booty in a highly sexual environment because she think she's entitled to? Bs. No mature married woman is in a club flirting with OP and drinking with him, knowing she has a husband at home. That's disrespectful and shows she cares about nobody but herself. If she wants to do that type of behavior, then she has no business being married. That IS what MOST married women do when they go to the bar. I agree a woman who has promised to be faithful to one person has no business acting that way even if she goes home alone. If people saw her acting like that then saw her with her H later they would consider him someone being played for a fool. No one should subject their partner to being an object of pity by strangers.
irc333 Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 It usually marks the demise of a marriage. It's getting kind of frustrating. I've been single for about a year now, still young enough (early 30s). But nowadays, i meet a woman going out, we have an interesting conversation and flirty but it seems like most of them are usually taken. They'll be with their girlfriends and dressed real flirty, heels, and the whole nine. Now, i'm not saying that married women should just be hermits and die. But are they usually "looking" for something when they go out? I just can't really imagine a woman who's happy being out there in the streets. Opinions needed (i.e. Married women who go clubbing) fetish
xxoo Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 She chose to seclude her life because she wanted to. Is it fair to her husband that she wants to go out and "let it loose" with loads of men surrounding her booty in a highly sexual environment because she think she's entitled to? Once every few years or so, my H pushes me out the door to go out dancing with friends and let loose. Now, whenever possible, I choose a gay bar. But I still wonder if single guys would think we were acting available, based on talking to other groups of people, dressing sexy, etc. In my mind, it is all a laugh! Not a turn on.
xxoo Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Sure......... Ha. Anyway, my H gets the whole play-by-play when I get home. Because he's my best friend. And I'd rather he is with me, but we don't like to leave the kids with babysitters late at night.....so that is very rare. This thread makes me want to go dancing 1
ThatDudeXO Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 For special occasions, like a birthday or a work thing then that's fine but once every weekend shows what kind of wife you are. It actually annoys me seeing married men/women who regularly go clubbing to drink and dance, which almost always ends up with some sort of interaction with the opposite sex. I know my future wife wouldn't be that kind of person 1
SteveC80 Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Bad sign,about 5 of my buddies recently had wives that cheat a few went clubbing a lot You just gottta be careful women can flip their siit or fall out of love with you if the wind blows the wrong way just be prepared
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