Sophie99 Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 My first love, and boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me about a month and a half ago. The first month I found it impossible to break contact, and I suppose I seeked comfort in talking to him often still. Maybe I thought because we were best friends for a long time before we got into a relationship that I thought I could 'bypass' the NC thing. WRONG, obviously: that hurt too much. Now I realise that I need to distance myself. He seems to have moved on pretty easily and I'm still in bits. I no longer have his number, nor do I follow him on social networks. However, we go to the same school, share a lot of classes, and almost all of our friends are mutual. On social sites, one of my facebook 'friends' will post photos, which my ex appears in putting his arm around other girls, and other girls basically all over him. At school, in class, he will say very loudly and clearly things like.. "[insert girls name here] do you want to share a Chinese tonight?". It feels like there's no getting away from him and it keeps re-opening the wound, I just don't know what to do? Thanks
darkmoon Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 (edited) i think you must have a change of college/school, thru happenstance you are in a situation that no woman could handle, i know because i am quite old and have done alot of living and what you are trying to endure is the fate of a fair few women who are unlucky in love >> new school, new start, really, i wish you well Edited March 3, 2012 by darkmoon
Philosoraptor Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 You're both kids and he is acting like an ass. What are you truly losing here? He seems to enjoy finding ways to hurt you so he can feel like he "wins" the breakup. Just work on yourself and when you are healed he will still be trying to make you jealous. Isn't that quite pitiful of him?
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