asiakayla Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 I met him online in October. He's in the army in NC and I live in NY. He seemed ok so i gave him my number and we began talking on the phone. He was a little boring at first, so i didn't really call him as much. He wasnt even really my type but i figured, hey maybe if i go another route, i'll end up with different results this time. Early in November, he told me that he was going home to NJ and that he wanted to see me. I wasnt really all that excited to see him, as a matter of fact, I never called him the day he was supposed to come to NJ. The next night i called him, only to find out that he never even made it out of NC. I was relieved because i really didnt wanna see him like that and then i was just like damn he was never gonna tell me? So,anyway... he went to visit his family in Jersey for thanksgiving. He was supposed to come see me on that Saturday after he got the windows on his 2011 white charger tinted. He was supposed to meet me at my house at 4 according to the GPS.Hours passed and I was getting no answer. He called me at around 9 that night to tell me he was doing 120 on the parkway, got pulled over and was taken to the station. "/ Then he told me he had to pay to get his car out the impound. "/ .....i kindly told him to refrain from calling me anymore because i smelled bull****. He called me the next day and told me he was really sorry and he wasn't lying. So i figured maybe my severe trust issues were getting in the way and he could probably be telling the truth. So i continued to talk to him. Dec 10th, he asked me to be his girlfriend, I said yea..idk why. Dec 24th, he was tipsy and was telling me he loved me. Dec 28th i went to NC and he met up with me in Charlotte and we stayed in a hotel room. The first three days were ok. He was cool, he was paying for my meals and so on. The fourth day, we went out with my friends to a restaurant, he gives the waitress his card and she comes back saying its declined. he tells me something is wrong with the card. in all actuality, hes broke!!!! i end up paying for dinner, i end up paying for the last night in the room and then i also end up paying for the gas n tolls all the way home cuz i was dropping him back in jersey on my way home to ny. He did however have someone western union him 70 dollars and he gave me the 70 in jersey, but this dude never called to see if i got home ok to ny. I ended up calling his phone to curse his ass out, andhis boost mobile phone is cut off, so i paid the **** just to curse him out. (Stupid ass move) We planned for me to go back to NC to see him in Fayetteville at his house. The plan was for Feb 18. All thru Jan everything was all good... but then Feb 4th came and he told me his cousin passed away. I believed him. This was a Saturday i think. So a few days later he tells me his Sergent is letting him go home that friday so hes unable to pay for my train ticket until the next week...which is right before im supposed to leave. We argue about that. Friday is the funeral, dont really hear from him, just texts. Next day i call him in the morning, he speaks to me for 5 minutes and then tells me hes gonna call me back after he washes his face. Dont hear from him the rest of the day. I leave a message that night and then he finally calls me back. Claiming up n down that hes at his dads house. Next day Sunday, day hes leaving he finally texts me at 11 am and tells me his phone had died. and that he cant talk to me because hes on assignment duty dealing with parachutes. . The next morning i call his phone and he sounds like hes outside and he said hes in a sleeping bag. ok whatever!!! could be true... knowing him u never ****ing know. Anyway i finally go see him after i paid for my own ticket (yea im dumb) ... hes 2 hours late picking me up from the train station. Remember that white charger??? Come to find out he really has no car. I mean he told me he was getting the windows tinted, has even told me his car insurance amount and how much the note was. I stayed for five days. i had to buy my own groceries and if i had takeout i bought his something to eat too. WTF!!!! not only that while i was at his house on his laptop, i saw he has a profile on okcupid.com looking for TRUE LOVE!!!! its a recent acct cuz the pixx were recent. I also ended up talking to this chick he used to talk to, come to find out, in jan he had asked her to come down and see his new place!!! smfh!!! I finally left that friday, this dude talked to me up until 8 at night while i was on the train and told me he was going to the bar with his roommate. Not once did he check to see if i got home ok. I felt like somethig wasnt right so when i got to ny, i called my friend at 6 am and told her i was driving back down there when hertz opened. We got back down to his house at after 10 sat night and when i asked for him, the roommates tried to act like they didnt know who he was. Finally i saw him thru the window in the front door and banged again. He came out and asked me why was i there. ... I asked him if he had someone in there and he said yeah. smfh. I tried to choke him and there was this whole big thing. He took me to the side and told me he was trying to break it off when i was there on my trip (no he didnt) and that he didnt see us working because there is no trust. He said its his fault because he lies to me too much and he doesnt wanna be with me. I'm a great person. I just dont understand why this happened to me. Oh yea and for Valentines day, he told me that was the 6 yr anniversary of his moms death. I spoke to him all that day, until about 9 at night and he told me he would call me back. I didnt hear from him until the next morning, he told me he had been in the er all night because he was constipated. Ive been sad since saturday... im slowly getting over it
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