HeartOnSleeve Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 So Guy A goes MIA and then resurfaces and it really doesn't phase him and he doesn't ask to make plans. All I want to say is "what is the point and why are you even contacting me if you don't want to make plans?" I mean if I don't initiate he still does. Should I just ask him straight out what he wants? I know I asked in another post if I should ask if he is interested, but it didn't seem right. so now I'm thinking the real question is WHAT DO YOU WANT? So dang confused. Do guys do this...where they are not interested but talk anyways. Seems like a lot of work. haha
Fondue Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 If I am not interested in a woman but still continue to talk to her, it is because I am hoping that it becomes sex sooner or later. 1
Author HeartOnSleeve Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 Thanks and yeah I'm over this guy right now. I don't need this BS and constant wondering. Been there done that.
FitChick Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Tell him you are dating someone else now and wish him luck on his search.
Author HeartOnSleeve Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 I should have chosen Guy B...dang it
Author HeartOnSleeve Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 Yeah I am pretty much there. He texted to say how is day was yesterday and I literally said "nice!" and that was THAT. Haven't heard again. I want a real date...damn it! Haha
Author HeartOnSleeve Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 Thank you for saying that...I am very patient and open minded. Thought a man would appreciate that as well but I guess not. lol Guy A is actually a different man. The soldier and I ended things more recently. Guy A is fresh...a little over a month and yes I did give the solider a good YEAR! Eeek. Never dated military, the soldier was the first. haha. The scary fact is that the lifestyle was actually perfect for me and my work situation. I'm so busy it was nice to have someone that was equally if not more busy. I'm on a dating site again and very open to LISTENING to folks on here this round. Hence I am moving on from Guy A. I don't need to wait around for another guy. THANK YOU
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