just-me12 Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 So I have posted on here a few times over the last few months, about a guy I am dating he went overseas for six weeks. In that time he has bent over backwards emailing mates to message me to get my email so he can email me, he has sent photos and emails every 5-6 days while in africa where internet is quite rare. He sent me a few postcards and also sent me a valentines day card. In it saying "wherever i may go on valentines day i would like to say I care more then you know" We started dating a week before he left, and did not sleep together, I don't believe sex is something that should be given up easily. He said in his last (and final) email before he returns on monday, back to our hometown tuesday (he goes straight to work tuesday) that he will try knock of work early because the sooner he sees me the happier he would be. Now he is a genuine guy, from what of him I know, he is a few years older, but the question is Would you wait six weeks just to sleep with a girl a piss her off? I am terrified that he just wants sex, still after all this contact, and after he gets what he wants he will bail. He has spoken about future doings with me such as picnics and going to the beach and camping. But still after being treated horridly in the past by all males that have come through my life (besides brothers and uncles and pop on mums side) I fear the worst. Could this be something more then just what I think it is?
nick d Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Honestly, I think you are just going off past experiences about this guy.. If he is trying this hard to stay in contact with you, I highly doubt he's just in it for sex. There are good guys out there, they are just hard to find.
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