jamrah Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 i'm in a band. i have started to see the lead singer. im a 29yr old male and she is 25. its kool and stuff but tonight i just blew it. we have be having a great laugh recently and even slept together for the first time during the week. we speak on the phone most nights and things were kool. tonight i phoned her and things were just awkward. its not her. its definitely me. i think that now she thinks im a weirdo...im hating it. i just had nothing to say to her. my pal who's party we were at last weekend is starting to see her pal and they are coming to a gig we're playing. dont know why its gone like this. guess im just venting. ive become really clingy kinda. i scared away another gorgeous girl two months ago and hope its not a consequence of an awful breakup a year ago...
xpaperxcutx Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Interpersonal relationships with ppl u work with are bad.
futuremom Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 First of all, self-pity here is fine, it's what it's here for, but if you talk like that all the time? Or even 40% of the time? Oh, yeah, she will back away fast. Just confidence. If it no longer bothers you, it will no longer be a problem. You created the problem by worrying about it, so do your best to convince yourself it is no longer a problem, and it won't be there anymore.
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