lochnessmunsta Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 So my issue is really messed up. Me and my ex were together for two years and a month. We were engaged and everything. Well in the first year of dating each other I was cheating on her for the whole year. She took me back every time. Two months ago, I left one once because I couldn't take it anymore. All we did was fight and make each other feel bad. But I came back to give it another try. So for a week we got back together but neither of us wanted to change yet. So I left again and I blocked her from having any contact with me because I needed time to myself. Well she sends me an 8 page letter on Facebook about how it wasn't all my fault and she really wants to work things out. So I told her I would come over Friday to talk. Well that whole week till Friday we were talking about how much we missed each other and how much we loved each other. Friday comes around and she tells me she wants me to move on. I also found out my best friend broke up with her girlfriend too that night. Short story is they're together but my ex already wants to start being friends with me, already keeping secrets from her girlfriend, and is talking about when she's single I'll end up wanting her back. I just don't know what to do. Everyone is telling me that she's just using and rebounding my ex best friend. And I feel like that's true too.
TaintedHeart Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Yeah this is pretty messy. You cheated on her, she took you back and now shes kind of doing what you done. There is zero respect here.
Philosoraptor Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 I'd say you leave each other alone because it doesn't seem like either of you are truly ready for a mature adult relationship. Work on yourself for now and if she does the same, then maybe there would be a chance in the future. 4
wilsonx Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 is there video of the cheating going on? Id like to see proof before I make any judgements!
Author lochnessmunsta Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 is there video of the cheating going on? Id like to see proof before I make any judgements! I never said she was cheating on her.
Author lochnessmunsta Posted April 3, 2012 Author Posted April 3, 2012 Status update: she broke with Nina because of me. Not for me. We've been talking since then and she's trying to figure **** out. She's having a melt down. She doesn't know who to be with.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 She obviously wants to be with you. So I don't see why you don't go with her.
Author lochnessmunsta Posted April 4, 2012 Author Posted April 4, 2012 Because she still acts like she wants to be with Nina. And she won't let me try. It's more up to her and not me. I'm trying to be there as much as I can.
TaraMaiden Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 Move away from her. emotionally and physically. move state. In fact, move country. Really, your title says it all.... Drama. Is it worth it? No curtain calls, no standing ovation.... just Prima-Donna histrionics and immaturity. Really, move on, go No Contact and leave it well alone. life is way too short for all this silliness.
lso802 Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 Not sure why you're not heeding the raptor's advice. Dino's pretty spot on.
Author lochnessmunsta Posted May 8, 2012 Author Posted May 8, 2012 I did I stayed away for two months then she came back.... Now she wants to figure out if she wants to be in a relationship with me or not. And it's killing me to wait, but that's what my heart is telling me to do. I already why i'm doing so it's for the right reasons and just because i'm scared to be alone or anything like that.
TaraMaiden Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 jeesh... i have no idea what you mean.... try typing that last line again....!
Author lochnessmunsta Posted May 9, 2012 Author Posted May 9, 2012 I did I stayed away for two months then she came back.... Now she wants to figure out if she wants to be in a relationship with me or not. And it's killing me to wait, but that's what my heart is telling me to do. I already why i'm doing so it's for the right reasons and just because i'm scared to be alone or anything like that. I already know the reason why i'm do and doing this. It's for the right reasons.
TaraMaiden Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I can't think of any.... Please list them, so we can help determine whether they're reasons - or as you put it in your title - Drama.... The reason I say this is because honestly - ? You sound prepared to sacrifice your dignity to pick up second-hand soiled goods...
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