xztjohn Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 i know i shouldnt care but i just want ur guys opinion. my ex randomly texted me out of no where saying "i hope you are happy" i havent talked to her for awhile. we broke up 5 months ago with the last two months of hardly any contact. all contacts is coming from her. she texted me i hope you are doing well and can you call me? i have a hw question. this is a class that i took 2 quarters ago. she is with another guy. what u guys think? i reciece unknown calls from time to time and i ghink its hurt. ghere is no response on the other end.
Chi townD Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 She wants you in the "friend zone". She's pulling on the leash to see if the dog is still there. 1
Author xztjohn Posted March 2, 2012 Author Posted March 2, 2012 darn i cant reedit so ill reply. i think she is the one that calls me. what u guys think she wants? the last two months we barely contact each other. she is the on that usually initates the contacts and i just ignore it.
Glove_slap Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 She is wondering why you aren't crawling back to her and this is leaving her feeling insecure and unwanted which is a good thing for you.
EgoJoe Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Respond the next time she asks for something and say, "No." She'll either stop trying, keep playing games or reveal her intentions.
Chi townD Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 okay......most women can't stand the fact that there might be a person on this planet that hates them or doesn't like them. You dated, you broke up, she immediately starts dating someone else, you go NC. She doesn't know why...you must hate her; therefore, she must get you into the "friend zone" to convince herself that the break up was justified. "Oh, look! We're not dating anymore! But, we're still really good friends. I guess it was for the best after all." Make sense? Good. Now, continue NC.
JohnP82 Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 It means that in between banging the dude she's with now, she thought enough of you to contact you. Honestly it means nothing. Just ignore her!
Eddie Edirol Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Ignore her, her new guys isnt paying her enough attention and she wants some from you, thinking you'd be waiting for her call.
leoc1973 Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Yeah listen to all these guys. My ex did it to me and I jumped like a little puppy. Well actually my ex did a lot more. She threw out every sign you can think of making me think she wanted me back. She even wrote me poems. LOL when I said ok you wanna get back together she laughed and said what would give you that idea? I said umm well when you call me crying telling me you love me, miss me, and 100 other things she goes no I am happy where I am! Then I didn't hear from her again for 2 months. You will hear it a million times on here. If she doesn't come right out and tell you that she screwed up and wants you back then she doesn't. Pride or no pride if she wants you she will tell you.
Author xztjohn Posted March 2, 2012 Author Posted March 2, 2012 oh interesting, i honestly did not know what she wanted from me. i thot she just grnuinely wanted to know how im doing or she was testig the waters and possibly get back with me. i kinda like it when she thinks about me alot. im pretty over it i think. when i used to get her text it was like emotions and anxiety starts running. now its like oh she texted me.
EgoJoe Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Just start rejecting her when you hear from her. It will quickly settle things and get you left alone. I don't think turning the other cheek works with these Women. Put her in her place without investing.
Author xztjohn Posted March 2, 2012 Author Posted March 2, 2012 i kinda like it when she texts me tho shows me that she still cares. feeling of being wanted i guess. if i reject her do u think sh will come out and tell me what she wants?
Eddie Edirol Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 i kinda like it when she texts me tho shows me that she still cares. feeling of being wanted i guess. if i reject her do u think sh will come out and tell me what she wants? She cares but not about you, just about her own feelings. You are just a pawn in her emotional game. it could be anyone that ignored her. So youre not really wanted, shes just curious if you'll answer her. Shes not really interested in what youre doing. Soon as you do, she'll lose interest again.
mike588 Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 My ex. dumped me 7 months ago to be with her ex. I went strict N.C. and didn't hear a peep from her until last month. I started getting emails and a note from her filled with..I'm sorrys...regrets ect. She didn't mention anything about wanting to get back together so I assume it was just to rid herself of all her guilt she's been carrying around for the past 6 months. Stick with N.C...follow the good advise given to you here.
Author xztjohn Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 do u think she will always do this? or will she finally be straight forward or stop contact? also do u think the random unknown calls is her? or am i just being delusional, apparently its pretty easy to block your number.
Author xztjohn Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 (edited) honestly a part of me wants to blow up on her face saying how much of a selfish ass bith she is an how she put me through hellwhile she is having fun ****ing some other dude. i mean if we r ****ing broken up dont ****ing call me, email me, and text me. i mean how selfish can you be having both cakes and eating them. i hope karma comes around and it totally ****s her over. which she can crawl back to me and me telling her off. she is so insecure an weak person and got manipulated by some ugly ass dude who showers her with money, (she said yeah hes not very attractve but he treats me well). he took advantage of the situation and ran with it while she was vulnerable. sorry just venting she put me through hell and not caring about how i feel through all of this. i never really blew up on her i awlays eld it in and try to handle it well. Edited March 3, 2012 by xztjohn
Author xztjohn Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 i think she wants me to want her. would u guys agree?
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