Emilia Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Hi Mantis! Ahmmmmm. For me, I think it's fine for a guy to wait until the 11th date if the girl really deserves it right? Why though? If you want to hang out with guys without sex that's what friends are for, no?
Author missyme04 Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 Is sex really that important? It really bothers me a lot. On my opinion, I think both parties should know each other well before stepping into that level. right? hehe
Emilia Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Is sex really that important? It really bothers me a lot. On my opinion, I think both parties should know each other well before stepping into that level. right? hehe Well sex for many of us is very important yes. It depends on what kind of person you are but personally I don't commit until I find I'm sexually compatible with someone. The last guy I went out with was enjoyable to date (we had trips away as friends before started dating) but we didn't mesh in bed at all. 1
Author missyme04 Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 Well sex for many of us is very important yes. It depends on what kind of person you are but personally I don't commit until I find I'm sexually compatible with someone. The last guy I went out with was enjoyable to date (we had trips away as friends before started dating) but we didn't mesh in bed at all. Thanks Emilia your reply is so inspiring. I also dont commit when I know that he's not for me. I wont give myself to someone whom I'm still having 2nd thoughts. Well I guess sex is mostly important on 'men' but if they really love someone, they're willing to wait. thanks Emilia
Author missyme04 Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 I'd be willing to wait for the right person, but after 3-4 dates there's going to be a serious cost/benefit analysis based on my time and money invested. If a woman is willing to pick me up half the time/take me out half the time/ pay half and an enjoyable person then yeah I'd be willing to wait as long as she wants. On the other hand, If a woman expects me to pick her up/entertain her/drive her around/ and pay for everything then there's definitely going to be a measure of what I'm willing to put up with. If you're dating a woman in this category you're better off ditching her and banging escorts after 3 dates. Thank you I also dont want that guys will pay for ALL of the expenses. Maybe on the 1st and 2nd date. But for the rest? it's nice if women pay sometimes But for the sex thing, I wont give it on the 3rd day. It's just so early.
Author missyme04 Posted March 22, 2012 Author Posted March 22, 2012 The above is all true, and please note that the majority of people on dating sites are only on there for CASUAL dating. So you have to really FILTER well! Thank you for this. YEAH! filtering is not that so hard since you would know if the person is serious or not after 3-4 messages. Some sends dirty pictures and I dont know why. hahahaha. I already saw a looooooot of different sizes. LOL! what's on their mind?
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