Author krissy1989f Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 Thank you both. I can say he wasn't sleeping with anyone else, he just sucked at commitment. Yes I would be mad if he did hook up with others so I understand where he is coming from but I also would get over it bcuz we weren't anything. I regret my actions and I know they were impulses that I won't do again. I just don't know how to let go now that he's talking to me again.. Bcuz most likely he realizes I was worth more than how he was treating me n how I was treating myself.
Yookie Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Thank you both. I can say he wasn't sleeping with anyone else, he just sucked at commitment. Yes I would be mad if he did hook up with others so I understand where he is coming from but I also would get over it bcuz we weren't anything. I regret my actions and I know they were impulses that I won't do again. I just don't know how to let go now that he's talking to me again.. Bcuz most likely he realizes I was worth more than how he was treating me n how I was treating myself. Seriously? Ugh, how on earth can you say that with conviction when there are red flags all over the place waving so hard they should be slapping you in the face. He only wants to see you on his schedule, he goes through periods where he ignores you completely, your girlfriends even tried to warn you about him, he doesn't spend holidays with you... and #1: He doesn't want a relationship with you. What do you really think he's doing when he's not hooking up with you? How do you let go? Don't answer his calls. Don't respond to his texts. Find someone else to date. Get a new focus... hobby, volunteer, family events... whatever you need to occupy your time. Please keep in mind that he will continue to let you be his booty call as long as you allow it but he STILL doesn't want a relationship with you and probably never will.
Author krissy1989f Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 I know it sounds crazy but i think he liked the comfort of being able to hook up with someone and not having to worry about me wanting it to go anywhere because obviously i was settling for what he was giving. its not like he ignored me, we just didnt see eachother everyday. And there is many ways i know for a fact he wasnt hooking up with anyone...which made me feel bad for hooking up with someone. ah idk, i think i just need to meet someone new who treats me right and i'll probably end up shaking my head at myself like everyone else. lol
Author krissy1989f Posted March 5, 2012 Author Posted March 5, 2012 I did not .. I ended up getting busy with stuff n he actually asked me if I was mad at him.... My new thing is feeling bad about yet again hooking up with someone else bcuz thats what got me in this situation in the first place... I feel like I need to prove myself to him and confess again but I know it'll make him mad again... Idk.. I'm hoping this passes..
Author krissy1989f Posted March 5, 2012 Author Posted March 5, 2012 A bunch? No it's been one since we stopped talking n I cut it off with the guy.. My point was some reason I feel like I need to confess. When there's no reason for that.
Author krissy1989f Posted March 5, 2012 Author Posted March 5, 2012 You're discusting. Do not write on this post.
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