stimson554 Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 to make a long story short me and this girl knew eachother for 8 years, 7 of those years we we best friends and this last year we were romantically involved, things went bad, we started to argue constantly, she left me out of the blue, i was so confused and devastated, and i became that emotional ****er pining for his ex, immidately aftertthe breakup she got with another guy, i tried to talk to her all the time but it made things worse and hurt me so much, she eventually wanted nothing to do with me anymore and i was so shocked that after all those years and after we told eachother we loved eachother for so long that she could just let go liketthat, but i decided to abandon her in my life anyways just kick her out of my mind and work on finding out who i am and building security in myself so i dont need to depend on anyone else for happiness so i wont get hurt in future relationships. bbut anyways its been months of no contact between me and her and out of the blue i got an email from her saying that we need to talk because she wants to fix things and wants for me to be her bestfriend again, i am fully ready to refuse her request because i have moved on, but i just wanted other peoples opinions, should i just go ahead with this and tell her off, or is there a part of this that could be salvaged for the better?
Philosoraptor Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 If being friends right now would bring you pain, then don't do it. Maybe it could work in the future, but take care of yourself for now.
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