kaylan Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 (edited) So I just found out today that my good buddy, and ex wingman, is now single...therefore becoming my wingman again. Its so hard to find a good wing, so I was pretty amped since we party hard and awesomely. He was dating this chick I wasnt too fond of. She pulled something pretty sketchy before they got together, so I kinda resented the fact that I lost my party buddy to a chick like her. We became buddies during my senior year last spring...and have awesome nights out. We used to go out 2 and 3 nights a week. Even 4 times a week on a couple of occasions I think. But I graduated last summer so we havent been able to party so much since. But Im going up this weekend for my first visit since December....so Im quite stoked. I havent had a good night out in a couple months, especially since Ive taken a break from chicks. But the weekend is almost here, I miss all my friends, and its time to get wild, dance, and talk to some of you pretty ladies. And hell...my homeboy and I are quite the lady killers when we work in tandem...haha jk...its gonna be a fun night though. Question I ask all of you though...Ever disliked a good friends partner? And did you have a righteous night out after their partnership dissolved? The purpose of this thread is also to tell all my fellow men here to go out this weekend...grab your best buddy, bro, wingman, whatever you wanna call him...gather the men, go have so fun and report back. Edited March 2, 2012 by kaylan
AD1980 Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 All my friends are now married except soon to be one single whos in the midst of a divorce after he found out his wife was going out with a guy the past 6 months that he caught cheatign on him with a few months back.. Once he gets over this which might take awhile hes great to go out with because he attracts women very easily and proably will attack the scene like a animal let out of its cage.. Only problem is if we approach 2 girls they probably will both want him while ignoring me lol
sigurpol Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Haha, I love this. There are very good/close friends of mine who are terrible wing-men. Who either just want no part of it, are bad at it, or only look out for themselves. There is one guy, who was my "drinking buddy" a few years ago and he was excellent for two reason. He had no shame going in and just kicking things off to a group/couple of girls. He had a really solid, funny, personality. But that was when he was opening things up. It always seemed like as it went on, he was **** up more and more. But I would also joke as the second reason was that he made me look really good by acting like a fool later on, so it helped me ;-) To answer your question, there were a few guys who just had really lame partners and it would kill the mood. I think my friends caught on to my dislike, or someone else's dislike. However my one buddy's girl loves playing the "wing-girl" when we all go out, and its such a good time. Here's to friday!
Author kaylan Posted March 2, 2012 Author Posted March 2, 2012 (edited) ^yeah man...you said it. Having a proper wingman is def the most fun. My friend is just super chill and relaxed about everything when we go out. He wants to meet chicks but hes not over occupied with it like some of my other friends. A couple of my other friends try to hard and it kills the vibe and seems to turn some chicks off. All I know is we always have a pretty good time when we go out. Plus gotta enjoy bringing back the old times. Its always the best times when you can just drink and dance like a fool with all your friends. And good wing women are very rare. I have quite a few chick friends, but they are all bad when it comes to doing being a wing person. But I cant blame them since women go about meeting people entirely different than men do. However, they are helpful in picking up signals for me. But I do have to definitely make sure Im not too friendly with them when we go out...because Ive had women ask me if I was "with" my chick friends before. And also some of the time they get preoccupied with a dude and I end up flying solo. Not fun lol. Edited March 2, 2012 by kaylan
tigressA Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 (edited) I like this thread. I'm on the train to visit my old college housemate in NYC and we always have a lot of fun together. We don't really 'party' per se but it's nice to have that bonding time. Maybe we'll go out tonight and flirt around a little bit To actually land on the point of the thread, I have had times such as you describe in your OP, mostly in college. The weekend after I broke up with my LTR-ex I went out with two of my housemates and had a rebound hookup with a guy I knew since my freshman year. Total blast. Edited March 2, 2012 by tigressA 1
Author kaylan Posted March 7, 2012 Author Posted March 7, 2012 Just an update. We did not go out to the bars Saturday, but we did have a bunch of people over at my old house near campus and blasted some tunes. We drank, goofed off, played beer pong, and I met a bunch of cool new people. Good times. And these two girls who never really played beer pong before, were totally owning the table Saturday night. I think it was all a hustle though. They were way to good for "first timers"...lol. Either way, it was good night with an old buddy and some new friends. Everyone should be doing that each weekend. Dont worry so much about dating. Enjoy friends, have good times, and let the dating just happen. 1
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