kkay Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Okay... So my ex moved out about 6 months ago. We dated for four years, lived together for three and he left me out if the blue and basically screwed me over financially, mentally and emotionally. It's evident he's a very confused 28 year old boy. If you care to read, check out my previous threads. Anyway, a parking ticket came in the mail for him today... I am thinking I will send it with a friend of ours/co-worker of his to give to him at the school they both teach at. Is this childish and immature of me?! Am i acting like a brat or is this behaviour acceptable? I want to basically send the message that after 6 months of reaching out to him, I'm done. I think that sending his parking ticket with a mutual friend speaks volumes, right?
2sunny Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Okay... So my ex moved out about 6 months ago. We dated for four years, lived together for three and he left me out if the blue and basically screwed me over financially, mentally and emotionally. It's evident he's a very confused 28 year old boy. If you care to read, check out my previous threads. Anyway, a parking ticket came in the mail for him today... I am thinking I will send it with a friend of ours/co-worker of his to give to him at the school they both teach at. Is this childish and immature of me?! Am i acting like a brat or is this behaviour acceptable? I want to basically send the message that after 6 months of reaching out to him, I'm done. I think that sending his parking ticket with a mutual friend speaks volumes, right? I wouldnt put the friend in the middle of it - I'd simply mail it.
Philosoraptor Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 I agree, send it in the mail. Attach a simple note saying to please update his address as you will not be forwarding any more of his mail.
Author kkay Posted March 2, 2012 Author Posted March 2, 2012 I thought about what you said and instead of mailing it I just placed it in another concealed envelope and gave it to our mutual friend...placing it in a blank envelope allowed the contents not to be exposed to his co-workers. Maybe not the best idea but I felt I should get it to him sooner rather than later. Honestly, I'm exhausted. I've spread myself thin while trying to fix myself and trying to help him fix himself. I still care. I still love him but I can't continue to care about his "feelings" and what my actions are going to be perceived as. Thanks for the advice friends. It's much appreciated.
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