Ruby Slippers Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 If just ONE girl who blew me off would have explained to my WHY she was blowing me off, I wouldn't have so much hatred in my heart for women. I swear, after having been through what I've been through with women, I ****ING HATE ALL WOMEN. I really do. I swear. Well, this attitude can't be helping you. People pick up on this stuff. I spent some time the past few years being very cynical and negative about men. And during that time, I attracted a lot of weirdos. Now that I have a better attitude, I'm meeting other people with better attitudes, too. It's true - birds of a feather flock together. Also, most people can't explain why they do what they do. And even if they could, why would a woman bother to tell you she was put off by your lack of interest? You show a lack of interest, yet expect her to tutor you on how to do better next time? There's nothing whatsoever in that for her. And she'd be making herself vulnerable to rejection and other unpleasant things from you. Should I blame the women who blew me off for not explaining WHY??? Probably not. But I do. Should I blame the men who let me down in dozens of ways over the years for not explaining why? Most of them didn't even understand their own issues, and certainly couldn't explain them! And the women I am able to seduce, going forward, will be the ones who ultimately pay the price because in my mind, a woman is a woman is a woman. I will gladly rip their hearts out of their chests and eat them in front of them while they're still beating. My heart is numb and cold after all the feelings of rejection I've been through. Then be prepared to be treated like garbage, too. Like I said before, if anyone had been through what I've been through, and after seeing that sending a text message and not sending a text message can be the difference between getting a first date and not getting a first date... HOW THE HELL CAN ANYONE STILL BELIEVE IN ANYTHING AS STUPID AS FATE AND DESTINY??? ITS PURE BULL****! We've all been through a lot of crap. You're lucky that you can get plenty of dates and enough practice to work all this out.
Untouchable_Fire Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 I don't know what's going on with you, but I know that when I go out with a really good-looking guy, it's almost always the case that he makes noticeably less effort than other guys. (Really, the only guy to defy this rule was my very good-looking ex, who just didn't seem aware at all of how good-looking he was.) In my experience, they give the impression that they're doing the least possible to get and keep you hooked. The problem is that sometimes, what they think is enough is not. So they keep acting smooth, without realizing they've already lost my interest. Is it possible you're projecting that blase, half-hearted, I-don't-have-to-do-much-to-win-you-over vibe? The player rulebooks say that works, but for me, personally -- not much turns me off faster. That is not how a player operates at all. That's how a guy who isn't interested in you works. If you run into a player... the guy will make you feel that he is SUPER interested in you, and make you feel like you have to compete for his attention. And I for the life of me don't know how the hell that actually does work on women...are they broken or something...? Some women are broken. I think most of the guys who we call players are broken too. I've never understood why you idolize these one night stand type of guys. They are great at getting women interested... but that's it. Relationships can't last more than a month or so.... because after that.... these guys have nothing to offer. They understand that if a woman really gets to know them the she won't like him at all. Guys with relationship skills are better. Better at everything. You should strive to be that guy! Players are like one pump chumps. The only women who fall in love with them are braindead.
Untouchable_Fire Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Should I blame the women who blew me off for not explaining WHY??? Probably not. But I do. And the women I am able to seduce, going forward, will be the ones who ultimately pay the price because in my mind, a woman is a woman is a woman. I will gladly rip their hearts out of their chests and eat them in front of them while they're still beating. My heart is numb and cold after all the feelings of rejection I've been through. Like I said before, if anyone had been through what I've been through, and after seeing that sending a text message and not sending a text message can be the difference between getting a first date and not getting a first date... HOW THE HELL CAN ANYONE STILL BELIEVE IN ANYTHING AS STUPID AS FATE AND DESTINY??? ITS PURE BULL****! Great... so you are going to punish innocent ladies that actually like you for the rejection of women who didn't like you...? How about you revenge them by making the first lady who really likes you so damn happy that they can be nothing but jealous.
Paper Roses Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 I don't like all that waiting to see if he'll call stuff, I think it makes a man look weak, not mysterious. She might have just decided you were the type to play those games and wasn't into it. Next time, act like a beast and go after her. At this point, it can't hurt, can it? 1
kaylan Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 Women giving you their number in front of their boyfriends and husbands? Tell me why I dont buy this thread at all...
Author TheSingleGuy Posted March 3, 2012 Author Posted March 3, 2012 Kaylan, If you had told me this was going to happen, that women would be giving me their numbers in front their husbands and boyfriends, I would have NEVER believed you in a million years. The way they do it really slick. Women are so crafty. In fact, this happened just last Sunday. I was talking to this woman, and there was very strong eye contact. At one point, we were gazing into each others eyes for a solid 45 to 60 seconds. It was pretty intense, the non-verbal communication that was going on between us. It was definitely on. No doubt in my mind. Right after that, I mean, within 60 seconds of that eye gaze thing, she whips out a business card and says "We should stay in touch". Then she turns to her husband, after she writes her personal contact info on the card, to explain, and says "We're gonna stay in touch. He's a good guy to know for travel deals...blah, blah, blah." She basically painted the entire thing for society and her husband as a platonic friendship, but I am certain it is not. But like I say, at the time of my divorce, I was naive to things like this. I was way too trusting of women. I wouldn't have believed this story could happen to any guy....especially never to me. But it does happen and it's happening to me. I'm still amazed honestly. And I still get blown off by 95% of single women who live in town. Out of town, on vacation, I get laid, a lot. But in town, with single women, I really consider myself lucky to have a date. The reason I posted about all the self improvement and good looks was because I was half way thinking the women were intimidated. But no one seems to think that's the issue. It's a lack of attention of my part. I will fix it with the next number and see if things go any better.
kaylan Posted March 3, 2012 Posted March 3, 2012 Whatever you say bud. You get laid a lot but are complaining that you get flaked on? Eh, doest sound like a bad deal to me. Either way, you have to forgive me for having trouble buying the validity of your situation given the fact that you seem to follow a lot of that pickup/seduction community stuff. Ive been members on a couple of forums and some dudes are known to be keyboard jockeys who like to story tell. Especially when you are tooting your own horn about how good looking you are and your ripped abs. O wells.
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