Love story is over?

[stimson554]

absolutely, i feel what you are going through iive been in the same situation, i was head over heels in love with this girl for a long time, same thing we would argue alot she felt neglected but its other way around eventually out of the blue one day she ended it i was in tears shattered my whole world man only she was seemingly unaffected by the whole thing but my situation differs in that immediatly after she got with a new guy and i dont think she felt anything for me, i tried to contact her but to no avail, she eventually wanted nothing to do with me at all, thats when i decided that it wasnt worth it and dropped it completely to try and get my life straight and get that independance that i dont need anyone else to make me happy, so i stopped trying to contact her, and few months later she came back out of the blue to say she was sorry and that she had made a big mistake, i didn't accept her apology and told her that its best we not talk, she was completely confused lol. see i didnt keep her around because she didnt want me back, she only wanted to be friends to compensate for her guilt of leaving me, and i dont need her sympathy, i pity her because the guy she got with after me cheated on her multiple times, i always told her what goes around comes around, i guess what im tryingg to say is even if this girl stays with this guy thats neither here nor there, there is always someone else out there but until you find that someone, you have to look at women how you would look at drugs, or boozed, once you get hooked on one of em it can be hard to kick enm out of your life when the **** hits the fan.

[goohoo]

Good point man, you're absolutely right that love is like a drug.. probably the most addictive drug I can think of personally. Look at the withdrawal effects.. you're willing to do absolutely anything to get it back and I mean anything!

 

But, there is always a road to recovery and you as an individual need to be willing to change and accept the things that have happened and do nothing but turn them into positive effects on your life.