Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 1, 2012 Author Posted March 1, 2012 To leave yourself alone among a pack of wolves and still get no attention, sounds like your not that attractive. They weren't wolves apparently. A few months ago, it seemed as if you were inundated with interested men but none of them came close to meeting your "high standards." Now, evidently, no men are interested in you at all. What has changed about YOU? I'm just growing more and more frustrated by the day.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 OP, yeah I also dislike how you used the word "p*ssy" to refer to men. Not cool. BUT, I do think men in America don't approach very much anymore. I think a lot of men are lazy when it comes to relationships and there are a lot of contributing factors to why I think men are now that way. One of hte biggest factor is when men are critical of how difficult women are. Yes, women are difficult. But from my stand point, men are difficult. But instead of realizing women are people just like them, instead of this motivating them to open up and reach out to women, they use this a reason to not open up to women. And therefore go home alone and take care of business. By themselves. They tell themselves they are happy. They might joke around with their male friends about how great and easy life is. But underneath it all, I think people want human connection. 1
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 1, 2012 Author Posted March 1, 2012 Either that or she's trying too hard. That's the thing. I was told to be obvious that i'm looking for a guy. Men told me this makes me more approachable. Well it doesn't work.
kaylan Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Awesome troll thread. I love how guys as pussies if we dont approach a particular woman. Of course it couldnt be because we just dont find her appealing at all. 3
Lostinlife4now Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Skanky bitches like you is what make dating for us guys hell on Earth. Go **** a hundred dollar bill, you gold digging bitch! "3 Men is suits came in" WAHAHAHAHA we see what she is looking for, some dickheads with sticks up their ass, who think they are better than normal people cause they got money and suits.....****ing victim of abortion you are! Oh my...do you have to be so mean? Now I can see why no one would date you!!! UGH!!!!!
joystickd Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 To leave yourself alone among a pack of wolves and still get no attention, sounds like your not that attractive. I am beginning to think this may be true or she is just too frustrated and bitter
kaylan Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 OP...we want pics. Then guys will be able to tell you if we'd approach you first in a bar. Also, how old are you again? P.S. - You could chat up a guy you found appealing. 1
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 1, 2012 Author Posted March 1, 2012 I am beginning to think this may be true or she is just too frustrated and bitter I am frustrated and bitter, but I wasn't always this way. Since adolescence until now, my attitudes about men have fluctuated alot, but the result has always been the same.
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 1, 2012 Author Posted March 1, 2012 OP...we want pics. Then guys will be able to tell you if we'd approach you first in a bar. Also, how old are you again? P.S. - You could chat up a guy you found appealing. I'm actually a well-known person so I would rather not put up my pictures. It would be very unprofessional and i'm afraid it might hurt my career. But trust me, look are NOT the problem. I'm 28.
kaylan Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Also, smiling once at someone does not mean approach. Usually two to three smiles is the average for going up to someone new. Sometimes I just smile at pretty or friendly looking people. Doesnt mean I want to get with them. Im a friendly guy.
Emilia Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 That's the thing. I was told to be obvious that i'm looking for a guy. Men told me this makes me more approachable. Well it doesn't work. How about having a conversation with them? Just talking to them. Being social and seeing whether there is a spark is different from full on approach that they might or might not find intimidating/overwhelming/aggressive.
USCGAviator Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Awesome troll thread. I love how guys as pussies if we dont approach a particular woman. Of course it couldnt be because we just dont find her appealing at all. Even the "beggars can't be choosers" guys didn't take a shot at said womam. Something doesn't add up here.
kaylan Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 I'm actually a well-known person so I would rather not put up my pictures. It would be very unprofessional and i'm afraid it might hurt my career. But trust me, look are NOT the problem. I'm 28. Well, just because you say looks arent the problem doesnt mean they are not. Without seeing you, we cant offer you much here. As a woman in her 20s, whos well known, you shouldnt have trouble with men. If you are...id assume its because they either dont find you physically attractive, or you have an off-putting vibe, aura, or even personality. P.S. - Guys case out the joint when they first get somewhere. They watch and see how a woman behaves. If she seems stuck up or bitchy to other people, dudes wont even both. Make sure you seem super friendly all the time when you are out and about. 1
ffw Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 OP, yeah I also dislike how you used the word "p*ssy" to refer to men. Not cool. BUT, I do think men in America don't approach very much anymore. I think a lot of men are lazy when it comes to relationships and there are a lot of contributing factors to why I think men are now that way. One of hte biggest factor is when men are critical of how difficult women are. Yes, women are difficult. But from my stand point, men are difficult. But instead of realizing women are people just like them, instead of this motivating them to open up and reach out to women, they use this a reason to not open up to women. And therefore go home alone and take care of business. By themselves. They tell themselves they are happy. They might joke around with their male friends about how great and easy life is. But underneath it all, I think people want human connection. I don't completely agree with your post. Its not about country. Sometimes men don't approach because of the rejection factor. It doesn't motivates them but instead closes them.
Andy_K Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 I'm actually a well-known person so I would rather not put up my pictures. It would be very unprofessional and i'm afraid it might hurt my career. But trust me, look are NOT the problem. I'm 28. You're the same age as me. If you're that hot, come to the UK and I'll ask you out
USCGAviator Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 I'm actually a well-known person so I would rather not put up my pictures. It would be very unprofessional and i'm afraid it might hurt my career. But trust me, look are NOT the problem. I'm 28. How about a "night out" pic from the neck down. Crop or blur your face out.
tman666 Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Wait, so it sounds like you DID get approached a couple different times, but it didn't amount to anything... To me, this could be due to one of two things: 1) The men who approached you were truly afraid to ask for your number/give you their number or try to arrange another meeting OR 2) During the course of your conversation with them, something occurred that caused them to make the decision that you weren't the kind of girl they wanted to pursue any further interaction with. I'm not going to make any sort of judgement either way since I don't know you, nor do I know the men who were approaching. I do know that actually approaching a strange girl and starting a conversation is the hardest part (from a guy's perspective) of this whole thing. Once the ice is broken and conversation is flowing, asking for her number or trying to arrange another meeting should be the easy part.
kaylan Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 How about a "night out" pic from the neck down. Crop or blur your face out. This. (ten characters)
verhrzn Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Also, smiling once at someone does not mean approach. Usually two to three smiles is the average for going up to someone new. Sometimes I just smile at pretty or friendly looking people. Doesnt mean I want to get with them. Im a friendly guy. So how can a woman get you to approach her then? Or, if you're telling women that they should approach guys, how can a woman tell if a guy is "signaling" that he's interested? Whenever I approach, I get shot down in a very brutal way, but guys don't seem to give out any nonverbal signals that differentiate between friendly and interested. How can a woman tell?
ffw Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 but guys don't seem to give out any nonverbal signals that differentiate between friendly and interested. How can a woman tell? Isn't this applicable to women also ?
FitChick Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 OP is an ugly, cold, shallow stupid bitch. I am SO happy no one wants your sorry, cold sore covered ass! You will be alone and crazy gold digger! Go to Europe away from real Men here. Try finding millionaire playboys there you whore. The only dirty pussy here is you! Parents, this is why you shouldn't allow your children to have a computer in their bedroom. This is what they get up to. 4
InJest Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 FrustratedStandards, have you ever posted a full pic of yourself on here. That would help a lot. I know you're large and intimidating, but it's possible you're just big and ugly. 1
verhrzn Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Isn't this applicable to women also ? No, women have quite a few "sexy" nonverbal signals. According to most body language books I've read, men just have a lot of problems reading them. Rule of thumb: if a woman smiles at you and maintains eye contact for longer than 3 seconds, then looks down and away, it's almost always a come-on gesture. A woman smiling and maintaining eye contact with you for a few seconds, then looking away "naturally" may just be a friendly gesture, unless she repeats it several times. You also need to watch for a "genuine" smile as opposed to a fake smile. She may be sending you a fake smile because you're creeping her out. A genuine smile (corners of the eye crinkle) with eye contact, repeated several times, is usually at least a mild interest signal. Also watch for women who sit in an "open" form (don't cross their arms, front of their body is more exposed) or who seem to be alone often. Pretty much... exactly what the OP was doing.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 I don't completely agree with your post. Its not about country. Sometimes men don't approach because of the rejection factor. It doesn't motivates them but instead closes them. Yeah, I think that rejection DOES play a part. But this goes back to men not wanting to face the rejection, instead choosing not to even try, and then go home by themselves and take care of business. Men are never giong to stop getting rejected. Either are women. (I have been rejected plenty.) That's a part of life. But I don't even think men try as much anymore. Instead, they are kind of deadended in this regard and instead of trying, will use the excuse that rejections keeps them from trying then go home and play with themselves while drooling over a woman that doesn't even know he is breathing.
musemaj11 Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Do women actually go to bars with the expectation that men left and right are going to buy them drinks? Personally I dont buy women drinks at clubs because Im well aware that buying a woman a drink serves nothing. Its simply going to make her think that the guy is another chump who provides her with a free drink that she deserves. However, sometimes when me and my friends opened a bottle and were without any female companies, we invited some ladies to join us. We just considered it paying for escorts.
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