joystickd Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 LMAO! This is still funny. The crazy thing is the type of guys she is looking probably wouldn't want her. I mean honestly what do have to offer a guy like this other than sex. What do you have that would keep them around? Are you even open and receptive to actually meeting someone and being in a relationship? Could you even spot this type of guy out in a crowd?
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 LMAO! This is still funny. The crazy thing is the type of guys she is looking probably wouldn't want her. I mean honestly what do have to offer a guy like this other than sex. What do you have that would keep them around? Are you even open and receptive to actually meeting someone and being in a relationship? Could you even spot this type of guy out in a crowd? What do I have to offer? Much more than the average woman. I can make a man the happiest man in the world without even having sex with him, and i've done it before. I wouldn't be able to spot this guy, no. Looks are deceiving and don't determine most qualities in a man. And even if I did, it's not my job to go after him. He would have to spot me.
joystickd Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 What do I have to offer? Much more than the average woman. I can make a man the happiest man in the world without even having sex with him, and i've done it before. I wouldn't be able to spot this guy, no. Looks are deceiving and don't determine most qualities in a man. And even if I did, it's not my job to go after him. He would have to spot me. If you are so special how come this type of man you looking for hasn't spotted you out by now.
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 If you are so special how come this type of man you looking for hasn't spotted you out by now. That's what i'm trying to figure out!
joystickd Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 That's what i'm trying to figure out! More than likely the problem is YOU. Its easier to blame everything else but yourself. Let's face it you may have a vibe about you that has men not wanting to approach. If you don't want to be the hunter then you have to make yourself the perfect woman to approach and now you seem to be a long ways from that. I bet the type of guy you are looking for would be turned off by the vibe you give off. You still didn't answer my questions lol
Jynxx Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 What do I have to offer? Much more than the average woman. I can make a man the happiest man in the world without even having sex with him, and i've done it before. No, you can't. I don't doubt you can make a man happy without sex, but there's no way he'll be happier than his friend who is receiving a bj at that moment. It's just not possible. And even if I did, it's not my job to go after him. He would have to spot me. If you expect people to follow unwritten rules because the rest of society does, you're in for disappointment. Attractive (not just physical) people don't comply with society because everyone else does, they live by their own rules. Think about it.
zengirl Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Thats the biggest difference between men and women. If a man were pursued by A, B, C while he is interested in D instead, he would ignore A, B, C and go after D instead. On the other hand, if a woman were pursued by A, B, C while she is interested in D instead, she would rather choose to settle with either A, B, or C even if she didn't like any of them rather than making an effort to go after D. Not really. I don't know many women who'll go out with guys she doesn't like. Granted, I know many women who won't go after D---but they'd just be alone if A,B,C weren't attractive to them. lol Won't lie, that's part of the problem. Not PERFECT, but yes, I have very high standards. To most it's "unrealistic" but to me it isn't, because I expect in a man all the things that I am myself. Unrealistic would be to expect what I can't offer myself, or expect things in which I cannot measure up to. But like i've mentioned before, I measure up to the kind of man I want. Problem is, I can't find him. Rather, he can't find me Well, most people don't want to date themselves. To me, unrealistic are standards that you cannot find in someone---they are not being realized after a long enough period of time, then they're probably unrealistic. Accept that and be alone or change your standards. The end. Anyway, as for your hunters phooey---that's not biology. It's absurd to say it is---absurd when men on here say crap like that and absurd when you do. Evolutionary biology theories about gender are almost always shown flimsy when actually examined in proper studies. You can wait around for a man to find you till the cows come home, and that's fine, but if you want to be passive then you have to be passive. You'll get what you get, and that's life.
musemaj11 Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Not all women, but yes, the majority I would say. I am one of those women. Cuz last time I checked, men were the hunters. You cannot force the hunter to hunt you. Its up to him whether he wants to hunt you or someone else he finds a better target. Thats the difference between the hunter and the prey. The success of the hunter is up to his effort while the success of the prey depends on the hunter.
oaks Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Cuz last time I checked, men were the hunters. Typically hunters go for the easiest prey. Are you easy?
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 What do I have to offer? Much more than the average woman. I can make a man the happiest man in the world without even having sex with him, and i've done it before. Right! You don't seem interested AT ALL in anybody's happiness, ever. Except yours, and even that only on a completely superficial level. Are you for real, or maybe a troll? I ask because the story you've been crafting with your posts really doesn't make sense. First, you were relentlessly pursued by too many guys to count, but none of them lived up to your "high standards." Which you only expressed in material terms. You rejected them all. Then, "Mr. Wonderful" shows up. You start a whole thread or even two to gloat about how wrong we all were, and even to tell us how you shared with him about how we disparaged your belief in finding the princely man you wanted. A few months of silence - and then, Mr. Perfect is fat, what should you do? You are no longer sexually attracted to him. That story line is dropped … but now, NO men will approach you. Not even guys without money. I don't think it's a very compelling story.
oaks Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 I ask because the story you've been crafting with your posts really doesn't make sense. Mme. Chaucer, do you have a file on everyone with all the salient details cross-referenced?
FitChick Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Then, "Mr. Wonderful" shows up. You start a whole thread or even two to gloat about how wrong we all were, and even to tell us how you shared with him about how we disparaged your belief in finding the princely man you wanted. I seem to have missed that bit.
joystickd Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Are you even open and receptive to actually meeting someone and being in a relationship? ^^ You still haven't answered this question Frustrated Standards. I think not because you have mention before in a thread you didn't believe in love so basically any relationship that you would be in would be on a certain level based on deception.
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Mme. Chaucer, do you have a file on everyone with all the salient details cross-referenced? In my steel trap like mind! In fact, I really do put together a cohesive "picture" of the person whose threads I participate in, as I imagine them to be. When the inconsistencies are too jarring for me to wrap my mind around (which might not mean much, given the condition of my brain) I usually open my big mouth about it. And, yes, regarding the OP - I forgot about the long threads about disbelief in love. Not an endearing trait. Maybe the guys at the lounge can pick up on it. They probably want true love, themselves.
joystickd Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/300403-called-mean-bitch-other-day-just-because-i-have-high-standards http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/313452-cheating-marriage-what-makes-marriage-work http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/313615-does-no-strings-attached-romance-exist-anymore You seem to have conflicting beliefs. You want a relationship but don't believe in love. You believe dishonesty can work in a marriage. Then you want romance without the other things associated with it. WTF?
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 It has nothing to do with not wanting true love. I just don't believe in it. There's a difference.
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 No. That makes you stupid. You can't compare a geographical fact with an abstract idea that didn't exist until social paradigms did. 1
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 Yes. An emotion. Not physics. Add: The only reason I say I don't believe in true love is to make it understandable to those who follow this social construct.
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 You are hung up on and in love with money and status...which are social constructs. I bet your panties smell good and all marinated....hmmmmm...marination... Money and status equate to a man being able to provide. That is a natural attraction that is measured in our society by these things, and not by which bird sings the prettiest or which lion covers the most ground. As for all your perverted remarks on numerous threads, if they don't stop ill make sure you lose your LS account and will have all your posts removed. Thanks.
FitChick Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 FrustratedStandards, there are dating websites that cater to women seeking rich men and also one for beautiful people. You should try your luck on those websites. Perhaps someone else knows the names or could post links to them.
Author FrustratedStandards Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 FrustratedStandards, there are dating websites that cater to women seeking rich men and also one for beautiful people. You should try your luck on those websites. Perhaps someone else knows the names or could post links to them. I appreciate the suggestion FitChick But i've explored those sites. Most of the men on there lie about their achievements. They just use this website because it would have more women (since everyone wants a rich man) and they would come off as more attractive. Also, rich men would not advertise themselves as such in order to avoid gold diggers, so chances are they won't be on those sites anyway.
Jynxx Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Money and status equate to a man being able to provide. That is a natural attraction that is measured in our society by these things, and not by which bird sings the prettiest or which lion covers the most ground. Also, rich men would not advertise themselves as such in order to avoid gold diggers, so chances are they won't be on those sites anyway. If rich men avoid those sites to avoid gold diggers (urban dictionary definition: A gold digger is basically a female who admires successful men as opposed to mediocre and unaccomplished men [...]), and you are attracted to them because of their money and status, a. what exactly does that make you and b. why shouldn't those men avoid you then? 1
kaylan Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 (edited) As for all your perverted remarks on numerous threads, if they don't stop ill make sure you lose your LS account and will have all your posts removed. Thanks. If you cant take the heat, get out of the bedroom. Dont be some big ole cry baby who needs to run to mods because you dislike the good points iluminaty makes. I know its more about you getting defensive about his points rather than just sexual remarks. You simply want a way to get rid of a detractor. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/300403-called-mean-bitch-other-day-just-because-i-have-high-standards http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/313452-cheating-marriage-what-makes-marriage-work http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/313615-does-no-strings-attached-romance-exist-anymore You seem to have conflicting beliefs. You want a relationship but don't believe in love. You believe dishonesty can work in a marriage. Then you want romance without the other things associated with it. WTF? This. Here is why you are unsuccessful with dating. You are a walking contradiction, a gold digger, and just a self-entitled prissy woman. The problem is that you obviously arent attractive enough to get away with these flaws. If you were, then you wouldnt be here always lamenting about your failed love life. A man or woman that is deemed pretty darn hot will be able to get away with some of the crap you have going on. So im inclined to believe you have nothing a man wants in a woman. Based on all of your threads, I feel very confident in making such an assessment. Edited March 6, 2012 by kaylan 1
joystickd Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 Money and status equate to a man being able to provide. That is a natural attraction that is measured in our society by these things, and not by which bird sings the prettiest or which lion covers the most ground. As for all your perverted remarks on numerous threads, if they don't stop ill make sure you lose your LS account and will have all your posts removed. Thanks. Lol this is still funny. You couldn't even recognize a man with some money if he sat right beside you and said hi.
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