musemaj11 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 (edited) Since most American women work full time outside the home, and most American men prefer to have a woman who works and has her own income, I'd say your expectation that women do everything at home in addition to their outside job is a bit much, don't you think? They are hardly lazy. Most women who have families also have an outside job, and then they come home to do more work, in taking care of the kids and the house. Men are the ones that are more likely to be not pulling their weight in other aspects besides their job. Men have started to help more around the house because their wives have full time jobs. It's only fair. The inequity is still there though--women are expected to work full time, bring home a paycheck to contribute to the family income AND take care of the majority of child care and housework. When that inequity has changed and men are doing their fair share of the work, let me know. So far, that is not the case. Women are still, for the most part, doing the majority of the work in the household and with childcare, in addition to holding down an outside job. And men are still, for the most part, doing the majority of the courting and bearing the majority of financial expense. When that inequity has changed and women are doing their fair share, let me know. Men have no obligation to approach women just as women have no obligation to be subservient to a man. You want men to be less timid and be more aggressive in approaching women because it benefits you as a woman. That way men will do the dirty work for you so you dont have to. Edited March 4, 2012 by musemaj11 1
2.50 a gallon Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 In my dating days, bars were only for getting laid. I can only remember few relationships that began at a bar that lasted any length of time. And then they had to be good in bed and then accept the status of friends with benefits. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 And men are still, for the most part, doing the majority of the courting and bearing the majority of financial expense. . Wow. That is really sad. I'm sure you're doing your part towards the change, mostly by never having any dealings with live women whatsoever. And complaining. 4
joystickd Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 And how many times does a man do something so trivial like hold a door and girls across the room gush at it? You don't see it, but I do. If a man buys a woman a drink, women will notice. And they will automatically gain a certain respect for him, because he knows how to make a woman feel like a lady. And that's very important. It's hard to feel lady like when you sit alone all night, buy your own drinks till you're broke and then have to hail a cab with your last dollars to get as close to home because no man will offer you a ride. ALL in heels and a dress. Definitely doesn't feel like you're a lady. More like an ugly, unwanted woman who wasted a night. Most of your threads I see this common theme of validation. Your need of a man to use his financial resources to make you feel like a woman. I mean if you have the equipment of a woman you should need anyone to validate that. I know myself I don't buy anything for a woman I just met. That's called trickin. If I ask someone out on a date I will pay but beyond that is trickin. I know I will now put a lot of financial investment into someone that potentially is not invested in me. Now back to approaching. One of the things is just because a woman smiles does not mean its cool to approach. I live in a small town in NC. Everyone is friendly and smiles at you, but that doesn't mean I can approach a woman thinking I can date her. If a man really is interested he will approach but sometimes women have to approach too. Its like my hustler friends use to tell me "A closed mouth don't get fed". I came to the conclusion that you are either average looking or just have a sh*tty personality. I know from experience most women 8 or above in looks have great personalities.
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Whether I feel like a lady or not has no relationship to who paid for a drink for me. Now that I think of it, some of my least ladylike phases included having lots of drinks purchased for me by men …
joystickd Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 I have a question to the women that talk so negatively about men on here. Could the reason you have trouble with men not be because they look at porn, are pussies, or are attracted to hot women but because you have issues? Though out all of these stories or experiences on thing is common and that is YOU. Every man is different and if they have the same response to you then only one conclusion can be reached.
joystickd Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 The thing about getting drinks is at some point you may meet a guy like this after a few drinks
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 I have a question to the women that talk so negatively about men on here. Could the reason you have trouble with men not be because they look at porn, are pussies, or are attracted to hot women but because you have issues? Though out all of these stories or experiences on thing is common and that is YOU. Every man is different and if they have the same response to you then only one conclusion can be reached. This is what I believe - and it works the same for the fellows aboard who spout all the crap about "females," as well. Y'all have problems! Work on them! Thanks! You'll be much happier, and cause less general misery, too. 1
Kamille Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Wow, another manhating thread written by a bitter, jaded, serial relationship failure. How refreshingly original As refreshingly original as your own jaded bitterness? 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Wow, another manhating thread written by a bitter, jaded, serial relationship failure. How refreshingly original You are not a very helpful guy. 2
Oxy Moronovich Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Appreciate the support. Glad to know you're happy with a girlfriend and enjoying your friday evening Whenever your relationship ends, i'll remember to reply just like this when you post your frustrations. Have a good weekend. At least I'll have had a relationship instead of sitting home complaining that I've never been in one.
FitChick Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 I didn't know it was possible to change the title of a thread once it had been posted.
Oxy Moronovich Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 I didn't know it was possible to change the title of a thread once it had been posted. The moderator did it.
dreamingoftigers Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 The thing about getting drinks is at some point you may meet a guy like this after a few drinks OMG THIS SONG! I was visiting my daughter at the Family Services office. (they do supervised visits for the first little bit). We were listening to ABCs on my iPhone (YouTube app). She's two. She wanted to play with my phone after, so I let her. In a few seconds I hear "women are stupid, I only have sex with them. Show me your genitals." I dove for the phone and told her it was inappropriate. Turns out that that is one of the most viewed videos on YouTube and she hit that one! The supervisor and I totally cracked up. And now, back to our regularly scheduled thread.... 1
aj22one Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 OMG THIS SONG! I was visiting my daughter at the Family Services office. (they do supervised visits for the first little bit). We were listening to ABCs on my iPhone (YouTube app). She's two. She wanted to play with my phone after, so I let her. In a few seconds I hear "women are stupid, I only have sex with them. Show me your genitals." I dove for the phone and told her it was inappropriate. Turns out that that is one of the most viewed videos on YouTube and she hit that one! The supervisor and I totally cracked up. And now, back to our regularly scheduled thread.... I saw him at a comedy show once, you could tell he was hung over though. Really funny. I love all his videos.
carhill Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Is there a way to contact a moderator? Lets say if someone made a joke that upon re-reading later they realized was incredibly rude and not very funny, but it was too late to edit it and they wanted it deleted? If the someone was you, merely hit the 'alert' button on your own post and explain why you'd like it edited. Your post, along with your explanation, will appear in their control panel. If the mod thinks it's strange enough, vulgar enough, or violates the community guidelines, it might get edited or deleted. No guarantees though. Better to count on all posts being permanent, especially if you're a man
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 If you're in need of help I suggest you don't seek it on an internet forum You may well be right, but that's the purpose of this site. 1
KathyM Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 And men are still, for the most part, doing the majority of the courting and bearing the majority of financial expense. When that inequity has changed and women are doing their fair share, let me know. Men have no obligation to approach women just as women have no obligation to be subservient to a man. You want men to be less timid and be more aggressive in approaching women because it benefits you as a woman. That way men will do the dirty work for you so you dont have to. Well, go ahead and be timid and stand your ground, refusing to approach women because it's unfair that you should have to put yourself out there. Let me know how that works out for you. 2
Ruby Slippers Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Heart Of A Lion: Do I know you? I tried to message you, but you don't take PMs.
carhill Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Heart Of A Lion: Do I know you? I tried to message you, but you don't take PMs. New member; the 30/100 rule applies for PM for non-subscribers. 1
musemaj11 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 Well, go ahead and be timid and stand your ground, refusing to approach women because it's unfair that you should have to put yourself out there. Let me know how that works out for you. You can tell women that also. Get off your arse and put your dignity on the line and do the approaching yourself. Approaching is not the job of men. Its not our obligation to approach you so you dont have to do it yourself and can just sit and wait to take your pick. Sorry men today are a lot smarter and we could see through your manipulative tricks. Anyway, Im not timid. I make a move when I find a woman attractive and I feel we might be compatible. But even if I dont approach, I still get women come to me by themselves. Its just that usually they are not up to my standard so I prefer not to just sit and wait.
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 Anyway, Im not timid. I make a move when I find a woman attractive and I feel we might be compatible. But even if I dont approach, I still get women come to me by themselves. Its just that usually they are not up to my standard so I prefer not to just sit and wait. REALLY?!?! Well, I'll be darned! I honestly thought you never spoke to a real live woman, ever. I'm excited for you! You're coming over to the dark side! 2
mesmerized Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 REALLY?!?! Well, I'll be darned! I honestly thought you never spoke to a real live woman, ever. I'm excited for you! You're coming over to the dark side! lol, I'm really liking you! Not many women have the sense of humor you do. *Thumbs Up*
Leigh 87 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 Did you go out with the HOPE of pulling a guy? If you go out with the aim to just HAVE FUN with your friends, you will attract the guys. You have probably heard this advice, but guys tend to apprpach girls, if they are out with their friends, smiling a lot, and looking like they are having a great time with their friends. Of course, after geninely enjoying yourself with your friends, u have to then go to the bar, and be alone for a second, to see how guys feel about you. I am moderately attractive, no model; but I attract guys when I am smiling, and looking positive, but NOT LOOKING like I WANT to attract men.. I just say hi to, smile at them. I guess u would very much like a nice guy, and it must show.. I think when a girl sets OUT to hopefully find a guy, it makes them infinately less attractive, then the girls who just go out to have fun. Of course, I could be totally wrong. I just sense that u wento ut looking for a guy, or at least HOPING for some success.... Which always, always comes off as less attractive, on some level.
ScreamingTrees Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 I guess u would very much like a nice guy, and it must show.. I think when a girl sets OUT to hopefully find a guy, it makes them infinately less attractive, then the girls who just go out to have fun. Of course, I could be totally wrong. I just sense that u wento ut looking for a guy, or at least HOPING for some success.... Which always, always comes off as less attractive, on some level. Good god, she might even end up attracting an LS regular!
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