shamone222 Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Hi, I have background storys to this but i finally found out what went wrong in the relationship. i was with a girl 8 months, we loved eachother and one day she breaks it off all of a sudden.. So i was talking to a mutual friend today, asked me if i was ok and all that. Mutual friend mentioned that she is hung over her ex and still has feelings for him. They wer together 5 years and she has been obsessed with him some time before that and i think still is. He has a girlfirned already and a baby! and i heard he has no interest in my ex anymore. he is not a nice person i have met him before. i was told he has her wrapped around his finger?? it was a tough breakup on me and even tougher finding this out. i treated her so well and from what i heard of her friends and family really really loved me. Will she realise after i move on from this what she has lost? Will she ever come back? im not sure if i would even take her back to be honest if she did, il always be 2nd best if she still has feelings for him... im so p****d off right now!!
a_bit_lost Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 crikey, i think your story resembles mine to a degree...
Chi townD Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Be pissed...you have every right. BUT, she did you a favor. Better to find out about this now, then years and a couple of kids down the line. You finally saw her true colors and to be honest with you, she's chasing a dream that's only going to end up a nightmare. Oh well....her loss.
JJ72 Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Be pissed...you have every right. BUT, she did you a favor. Better to find out about this now, then years and a couple of kids down the line. You finally saw her true colors and to be honest with you, she's chasing a dream that's only going to end up a nightmare. Oh well....her loss. ^^ Agreed. If you treated her well, then it's her loss. She fcvkked up and will realize it. Forget about her and move on.
Author shamone222 Posted March 1, 2012 Author Posted March 1, 2012 Cheers everyone, In a way, im glad i have found this out, it will be easier to move on this way knowing that she isnt worth it, all the thoughts in my head over the past week about wanting to get back together with her has changed to i dont want to get back together! although im angry and hurt and may be for a few weeks, il get over this. and she will realise what a dam good boyfriend she once had. her friends have even told me out of all the relationships she's had, i was there favourite. i can bow out with my head held high
Chi townD Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 GOOD ATTITUDE!!! But, I want you to realize something. You're on a roller coaster of emotions. You might feel good now, but tomorrow you might be angry. And the next sad and lonely, to being happy again...this is normal and it going to happen. Post here to vent or talk crap out when you need to. 1
Author shamone222 Posted March 1, 2012 Author Posted March 1, 2012 ah thanks, im aware of emotional rollercoaters iv been in one for a week. its gona be tough but i realise thats the first barrier you have to break through when you are tryin to heal and move on, back to square one again!
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Hi, I have background storys to this but i finally found out what went wrong in the relationship. i was with a girl 8 months, we loved eachother and one day she breaks it off all of a sudden.. So i was talking to a mutual friend today, asked me if i was ok and all that. Mutual friend mentioned that she is hung over her ex and still has feelings for him. They wer together 5 years and she has been obsessed with him some time before that and i think still is. He has a girlfirned already and a baby! and i heard he has no interest in my ex anymore. he is not a nice person i have met him before. i was told he has her wrapped around his finger?? it was a tough breakup on me and even tougher finding this out. i treated her so well and from what i heard of her friends and family really really loved me. Will she realise after i move on from this what she has lost? Will she ever come back? im not sure if i would even take her back to be honest if she did, il always be 2nd best if she still has feelings for him... im so p****d off right now!! She needs to get that other guy out of her system first. I dated a guy who was still swooning over his ex wife--who divorced him because she couldn't take the abuse anymore. She is with another woman. During my time with this tool, he called me by her name at least 6 times. He dumped me and then had the nerve to insist we be friends because he 'never throws anyone away'. Look. She walked. Let her keep walking. I doubt it will be all moonlight and roses; you are competing with an ex who doesn't even want her. She will realize she lost you when the fog in her head clears.
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