hawkgirl24 Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 I'm meeting with my ex-boyfriend today after being broken up for over 2 weeks, and after not seeing each other for almost 3 weeks. We have spoken only a few times since the break up, but I thought he owed it to me to meet me in person and talk about everything, because he broke up with me over the phone after 3 and a half years. I'm incredibly nervous for this meet up, because I have no idea how it's going to go, and what he is going to say. I know that I have many questions that I need answers to, but I am so worried that I am going to get upset and cry. I don't want him to think that he has hurt me this bad, even though he has. How do I make sure this meeting goes smoothly?
olivec Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Honestly nothing he says aside from him saying "I want you back" will make you feel better. I think talking to him will do more harm than good right now. Its still soo fresh since the breakup. You should go no contact or you will continue to be depressed or think theres hope you will get back together which will probably not happen at this point or ever. You need to focus on yourself and heal and stay away from him even if hes the one making the contact.
Philosoraptor Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 What questions do you really need answers to? Why are you meeting with him? I agree with the above, nothing here is going to make you feel any better and no amount of questions answered is going to make things easlier. You need to do the work inside as you can not get any sort of closure from anyone else.
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