edwards99 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 So my girlfriend came home last night with her two cousins..and said we are just driving one home and ill be back..she continued on to her closet and changed from her work top to what i think is a little tight sexy black shirt..we havent been on good terms for bout a week n a half..so they leave..after her n i bicker about something dumb or something..so i thought maybe ill go for a drive..just really to see if infact they were going to where i was told.. so low n behold i find her truck at a poolhall..i go in not knowing what to expect..i see the three of them at a table playing pool..without them seeing me i left..bout an hr later she came home..went to bed..said nothing ..i think i was wrong to go and check..i have an issue with trust n jealousy..always have..been cheated on to many times.. but was she wrong here..n why change your shirt to a sexier one..is she trying to attract..i dont know why i am thinking all i am...please any words or advice would be great..
CC12 Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 So on her way to take her cousin home, they stop at a pool hall and play a few games of pool. I don't think this is anything you need to be so upset over. She changed out of her work shirt into a nicer-looking one because nobody likes to spend more time than necessary in their work uniform. So? She didn't give you the full details of where they were going. So? Lie by omission? I guess, maybe. But you hadn't been on good terms so she probably didn't feel the need to tell you her exact plans. And it's entirely possible that she originally did plan to take her cousin straight home, but after you two bickered "about something dumb or something," she didn't want to go home yet. So? She's allowed to go out. i have an issue with trust n jealousy. Side note, you are letting your issues cause you to do crazy things. You actually got in your car to track down your girlfriend and then you went inside where she was...to do what, exactly? I'm glad she was only with her cousins, because I have a feeling you would have made a big scene and humiliated her if you had seen her there with other people. Am I right?
Author edwards99 Posted March 1, 2012 Author Posted March 1, 2012 thanks for that..reading how someone else breaks it down lays it down differently..irrational is how i think i behaved..just alot of crap going on.
rickys Posted March 2, 2012 Posted March 2, 2012 I don't find a reason to be upset here. So, don't worry just play cool man...
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