PinkCarnations Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 No contact, limit contact, ignoring, or acting like I don't care... I've been doing it all in hopes of reconciling with him. I keep waiting around for his texts or calls because I want to know he's missing me. For weeks, I've been back and forth about whether to try to move on or try to get back with him or even remain as friends so long as I get to be around him. But today, I finally made the decision that I want to move on. And that it's ok for me to cry at night once in a while or reminisce on our memories, or feel depressed when I think about how he's with someone else now. I'm done hoping. I am truly going to try to move on and cut off all thoughts about my future with him. When did you guys have that realization?
darkmoon Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 depends but jus one day you realize you don't think of them much...and at some point someone else comes along who you fancy
Life Person Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 I thought I had it a few weeks ago, but then she just had to send an email leaving some breadcrumbs for me to feed on...
mike588 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Like darkmoon said one day you just quit thinking about them but it takes time. It's a matter of re-adjusting your life. Like all of us I thought of my ex. a thousand times a day then as time passes so do the thoughts that's why N.C. works so well. Imagine talking..texting etc. everyday or a few times a week...it keeps the memory so fresh as well as the pain. I don't know the exact day..week when I just quit analyzing the b/u....quit thinking about her all the time...it just happens. I doubt myself or others will ever forget our ex.s....not to think of them on ocassion but it does get better...much better. Do your best to move on...stay N.C. focus on yourself.
GKM Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 I wish I could reach that stage soon! I still keep hoping he will change his mind!
Chi townD Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 I went NC. She was on my mind first thing in the morning and the last thing I thought about at night. Then, the longer I went NC; one day I woke up and she wasn't the first thing on my mind. That's when I knew I was healing.
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