What's the deal??

[Daywalker]

My ex and I broke up in early December... We still talked I did the chump thing and told her how much I loved her and how I miss her, with non of this working, I stopped!!!*

 

We dated for a year. Spent a month in thailand together.

 

After 4 weeks of no contact we started talking again, well we kinda got into a fight over fb...someone told me she was in a relationship with some guy... Less than good looking turns out its a hoax... The guy lives in another country so I apologize. We start talking normal, I told her its none of my business who she dates, I was upset that he was the best she could do!! She made it clear it was a joke.

 

Then I get this reply

 

I miss you I think of you a lot, more now then before. I feel horrible for breaking your heart. Thank you for this message. But honestly no man is in my life..I'm on the outs with that. I have high standards no downgrades

 

I kinda mentioned that it's strange we couldn't have worked things out, what exactly happened to us?

 

 

I honestly don't know what happened. There are so many nights when all I want to do is lay in your bed with you. Nothing has felt like home since we've broke up weeiirddd huh.

 

I said well what was holding you back?

 

She replied

I guess it's really me against myself.

 

Then we agreed to hang out and see if we could work things out... So we set a date and she cancelled it cause she had a photo shoot that day cause shes got nominated for miss hooters.

 

So we setup another day to hang out, but before then I get this message*

 

K look Justin I wanna try and fix us, I was so inlove with you but I know in my heart that there was something wrong in the relationship, I know something and I need you to be one hundred percent honest with me if you've cheated on me at all while we were together...because I know more than you think I know there is people around you that have a big mouth. But I want to start a clean slate and hope you give me the answer I am looking for

 

I replied

 

Ok, I will be 100% honest, I've never ever cheated on you, I swear on my mother, my father, my brother, my unborn children's life... I would never lie on anyone of my family's life... I can't believe you'd ever think I am that kind of person, I maybe alot of things but cheater is one thing I am NOT. I'd never do anything to hurt your feelings, I wanna work things out. I'd like to start over, Who ever told this is obviously lying, and if they are a friend of mine, I'd like to know who, i was raised by how my father is and thats loyal, morals, standards... I've never cheated, I'm proud to say that...so who ever told you that was misinformed. Because that's not who I am, or who I'd ever be. I want you to know that.

 

*She replied*

 

I believe you I didnt think you were that kind of person. Its just people ****ing up my head, I know you were raised good.

 

We were supposed to hang Out again later that week but it got cancelled again cause her mom is having a baby... Soo she called me to break the plans we had made This was last Wednesday, she seemed happy to talk to me over the phone, maybe just excited over her new brother, I dunno, I texted her over the weekend congrats on the new brother and what not she replied thanks he's a cutie blah blah.. I asked her if we're gonna hang out soon? She said soon now I don't know what to think is she regretting it? I don't wanna seem pushy or anything so I'm not doing anything.... What does everyone think of this? What should I do? Should I try to setup another meeting or should I lay low, and let her make the moves

[robinatrix]

Sounds to me she isn't that interested. Just IMHO.