tlamb93 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 So about 2-3 weeks after me and my girlfriend broke up, I started going on dates with this other girl. We started hanging out about 2 weeks ago, and we've hung out a solid 4-5 times. Only one of those times has been an official date in which I took her out to dinner, the other times have just been us going on walks, going to a party together, and just hanging out in her room. We've hit it off pretty well so far, we talk extremely easily, make eachother laugh, and there's rarely an awkward moment. By the way, I'm a senior in High School. So I haven't kissed her yet. I am attracted to her, and I do like her, I just haven't gotten myself to kiss her yet, I don't know why. I was talking to her friend and her friend told me that she was disappointed when I didn't kiss her last night. We were laying on her bed just listening to music, and I didn't pull any moves. I don't want her to be disappointed and move on to someone else. Am I screwing things up? How should I go about this? We're going to the movies on Friday night, and I'm thinking I'll put an arm around her throughout the movie, cuddle a little bit, and then give her a kiss when I drop her off. Good idea?
Canguy Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 IMO, I think you should have definitley at least put your arm around her when you were sitting in bed, BUT, she should understand if you don't. Not all girls will want to be touched, so guys are naturally "afraid" of putting the moves because they might get rejected or girl will feel like your only trying to get in her pants. It really depends I guess on the situation. But overall, if she ignores you after or treats you differently cuz you did not make the moves, then shes a moron and not worth your time and probably doesnt like you enough to understand that.
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