vballtay Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 I can't tell what this guy is thinking. He's the cocky type and he's very attractive , so I know he has lots of experience with the ladies.. but sometimes he just acts a little weird around me. I know he's attracted to me, bc he's mentioned sleeping with me. I told him I didn't want to sleep with him until I was more comfortable with him. He asked several times to hang out, but I was usually busy when he asked (not intentionally!). He's stopped asking me out and even mentioned that I was always busy when he tried, so now I really just see him around my college campus. We coincidentally get food at the same time pretty much every day so this is when ill seehim. If I give him a big smile hell always come up and say hi, but if I don't see him, my friends will say he just kind of glances over and it turns into a stare, but he wont always approach. I was with a friend that I had introduced him to in the past and he had approached, but then just kind of stood there awkwardly. My friend even commented later on how awkward he made things.. Our last encounter happened when I saw him sitting alone eating , I had walked up to him, asked if he wanted company and he just kind of looked down and smiled .. so I sat down with him, he asked about something I had mentioned to him a week or so earlier, we talked a little about classes, and he had said he had one in like 2 mins. I asked jokingly why he didn't finish his food on the run then and he said he wasn't going to. Then we both got kind of quiet, he pulled out his phone, I got up to get a napkin, and then he had to run to class. Sometimes I feel likehe's very flirty but sometimes I feel like he's just being friendly, and sometimes just a little awkward. Anyone know what his deal might be?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 First of all, he was interested in sleeping with you. But since you shot him down, he's not going to bother pursuing you. If you say he's experienced with the ladies, he won't bother with a girl who is not ready to give it up easily. He'd rather spend his energy on someone who will bed him easily than a girl who wants to "date".
Seneca Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 I don't get it... You were busy when he asked you several times to hang out? To me it sounds like you are just playing with the guy. And now you are asking what's HIS deal? If you really wanted to hang out then why didn't you at least suggest another time... Am I wrong?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Why don't you consider how you would be addressing this board were this guy not "very attractive"? We know he wants to bang you. Are you sure it is purely coincidental that you and he get food at the same time every day??? This guy is a difficult read so far, given what you've said.
Author vballtay Posted February 29, 2012 Author Posted February 29, 2012 I don't get it... You were busy when he asked you several times to hang out? To me it sounds like you are just playing with the guy. And now you are asking what's HIS deal? If you really wanted to hang out then why didn't you at least suggest another time... Am I wrong? I actually had, I had mentioned that I was going to the beach one day and he was welcome to join and he said he would if he could but he had work. So I told him that was fine and to let me know when he was free and that's when he made the comment "I've tried to but you're always busy.."
Eddie Edirol Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Hes doesnt want to hang around you as long as you act like youre not interested in him. If you dont want to sleep with him, dont bother trying to be friends with him, hes not interested in that.
make me believe Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 He wants to bang you, and you are a challenge to him because so far he hasn't gotten to yet. Don't be flattered by him talking about sleeping with you.... seriously what an inappropriate thing to say to someone who you're not even dating! I know you are in college but you really need to set your standards a little higher than some dude who talks about fking you but won't even ask you on a date. Believe me, you're not special to him.
sigurpol Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Mmmm, I'm kind of on board with everyone else here. Cocky, attractive guy, in college? And then he said he wanted to sleep with you? He just wanted ass, it seems like. He got turned down, even if it wasn't intentional on your part, and it probably hurt his ego. So because of that, he might resent you. And now is role-reversing. I'd try to forget him.
Seneca Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 The OP is a stupid bitch, for thinking she would withhold sex from a player and it will make him like her more. That's really not necessary. I actually had, I had mentioned that I was going to the beach one day and he was welcome to join and he said he would if he could but he had work. So I told him that was fine and to let me know when he was free and that's when he made the comment "I've tried to but you're always busy.." Ok, still don't get it... so how many times has he tried... twice, three times? And then when he has asked you to hang out was he scheduling a week in advance? Plus, why do you care so much if he is interested or not? Do you like him at all? Or are you just curious?
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