perfectlyflawed459 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Hello all! I have a brief update: Well first off I would like to say that life has been going quite spledidly the past few week and that I am very happy Still staying away from relationships for awhile, but I am very content with that and believe it will pay off in the long run when the right person comes around. Even though life has been going well, I am still having issues with my ex...but now he can't seem to leave ME alone. Ever since he sent me that rude message about how he never wants to see or speak to me again and blah blah blah, he sure has been hanging around where I work a lot more lately. By hang out, I mean bringing his girlfriend to the exact spot I work at and pretty much trying to rub his relationship in my face every chance he gets. Like when I am around, they start to laugh and talk louder and he starts to throw himself all over her. It has actually gotten to the point where they come to the grocery store I work at on a daily basis and especially on days that I work. They do not interact with anyone else or buy anything, just linger around and rub their relationship in my face. Keep in mind, I have not said a word to him since that text message he sent or talked about him or his gf for that matter so I have no idea what caused this behavior from him. At this point, he is just making me laugh because he has tried several attempts to make me jealous, but I just don't awknowledge him. It is getting a little irratating and creepy though how they keep trying to find me at work. Even my mom and friends have noticed this behavior and think it is very uncalled for and pathetic. Seriously, how disrespectful and immature can you be? And he says I need to grow up and act right...Ya know, for someone who really wants nothing to do with me, he sure is having a hard time leaving me alone! I mean if I was his gf, I would be pretty pissed off that my bf keeps taking me to a grocery store where his ex gf works rather than actually taking me OUT somewhere more fun! She probably takes it as a compliment that he rubs her in my face, but actually it just exhibits how immature and insecure their relationship and both of them are. They have to try and tear me down in order to make her feel good about herself, I mean I do not see why else they put so much effort in hanging around me. Oh man I wish they could see how ridiculous they are...they really need to get a life Hope everyone has been doing well on their road to recovery! I will keep giving updates on life as I go!
Nightsky Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Don't let it bother you. He probably pays the girl to be seen with him. 1
Buttercup84 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Good god that is pathetic and sad . They must be so happy together ! A beautiful , smart and sweet girl like you is too good for him . Just ignore them , and if it gets too much tell your manager .
Philosoraptor Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Seems like you are doing the right thing. Eventually they will realize that they are not getting to you and back off. At that point he might dump her as he seems to be using her as a tool to "win".
radiodarcy Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 good for you for seeing their pathetic excuse for a relationship for what it is: a cheap ploy to get your attention. as Philosoraptor stated, once he realizes it's not working he'll stop. i'm surprised your boss hasn't thrown them out for loitering.
rdb Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 I've read a lot of things about how exes behave on here, but that is by far the most pathetic. smh.
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