motive2002 Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 So where am I progress-wise? In a pretty good place. I still think about her sometimes.. sometimes I catch myself ruminating. It's really odd how I feel a deep personal betrayal, when logically it's all for the best. I'm upset knowing that she was probably having wild flings immediately after the split and I was struggling just to have an appetite and the will to get out of bed. Seems so unfair.. But 3 months of distance has done its healing work. I'm not totally healed... don't get me wrong, but I'm in much better way now than before. It gets better people. Hang in there. Keep NC and move on with life.
Philosoraptor Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 Good for you. All we can do when hurt is work on ourselves and do our best to put ourself in a position to not be hurt again. 1
madball2289 Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 So where am I progress-wise? In a pretty good place. I still think about her sometimes.. sometimes I catch myself ruminating. It's really odd how I feel a deep personal betrayal, when logically it's all for the best. I'm upset knowing that she was probably having wild flings immediately after the split and I was struggling just to have an appetite and the will to get out of bed. Seems so unfair.. But 3 months of distance has done its healing work. I'm not totally healed... don't get me wrong, but I'm in much better way now than before. It gets better people. Hang in there. Keep NC and move on with life. I 100% agree. I'm the same boat. It's been about two months for me with NC. And just like how you think, she was probably sleeping around within days while I lost 5 lbs from not eating. I'm not completely healed yet but way head of where i was before. Your not alone man. Keep it up
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