TheSingleGuy Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 (edited) I go thru these phases where I'm just horrible at meeting women and can't seem to buy an indicator of attraction. Then I go thru these phases where women seem to be throwing themselves at me. This last weekend was especially good. And now, I think I may have solved the puzzle. In the past, I've just assumed that I act more confident when I've had recent success with a new woman. And because women are attracted to confidence, success breeds success. But this last weekend, I think I figured something out. Yesterday afternoon, at lunch, I started talking to this woman at a restaurant bar. We had a good conversation going. Then, a guy entered the picture and I suspected it was her husband. So anyway, I couldn't reach out and touch her, physically, or do anything else that this guy, who I suspected was her husband, might see. But I wasn't sure it was her husband, and I really wanted to communicate to her that I was attracted. (Not that I was planning to do anything, just playing, flirting and having fun...she was wearing a huge diamond ring. But I still enjoy the "challenge" of getting a woman to do something to show she's attracted to me, at least on some level.) Somehow, for just a few seconds, while she was talking, we had very strong eye contact. I mean, VERY strong. Our eyes were locked, probably, off and on, for 45 to 60 seconds, I'd say. One of us would glance away for a split second, but for that 45 seconds or so, our eyes were basically locked. I felt there was some kind of strong, sexual communication going on. Whatever it was, it seemed to have worked, because shortly after the eye locking thing, she said "We should stay in touch", pulled out her business card and wrote her cell and e-mail address on it. Then she explained to her husband, that we're gonna stay in touch so we can talk about "travel bargains". Ladies, is it possible for a guy to say "I'm sexually attracted to you" with his eyes? Edited February 28, 2012 by TheSingleGuy
SJC2008 Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 I'm no women but have researched the topic. When FIRST meeting a woman, if you break eye contact firsr it sends a subconscious signal of submission. Your chances of then scoring a # dwindle. Women LOVE eyes! It basically goes back to the confidence that you talked about.
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