xXMarlboro_ManXx Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 In order to save some time I am planning on spamming a bunch of canned messages to profiles that I have actually read an have interest in. I've seen plenty of profiles where it says "hey how are you message will be an instant delete" but I think that is bs. 98% of getting a response is the quality of the profile and as long as the message isn't "hey you have a nice rack we should get together sometime" I don't think it is that important. Is my reasoning incorrect? Guys any luck with canned messages? Girls would you respond to a: "Hey I enjoyed reading your profile. How are you?"
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 From what I can gather is that your pictures are all that matter in online dating. Your message just needs to be complete sentences. Otherwise most women could care less if you actually read their profile.
lilyblue Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 From what I have read I think most people disagree with me, but I don't care what the first message is (well unless it's "nice rack"). I understand why a guy wouldn't want to spend a ton of time writing very personalized messages to women who may not respond. When I get an email I look at the profile to figure out if I want to talk to the guy, and write back if I do. At that point I like something a little more personal from him.
SmileFace Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 Yeah it doesn't hurt to try. If I find a guy's page and pictures to my liking I will reply to a canned message. I understand online dating can be hard for men and I myself some time send out canned messages so I won't discount a guy for something so simple. I wouldn't take my time to personalize messages for people who may not reply so I don't expect him to. Old is a numbers game sadly enough.
SJC2008 Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 I'll tell you the same thing I did another poster with a messGe qyestion. I have gotten more replies from canned/bulk messages than from personal, in depth ones. If a woman wont respond to "Hi I'm x, you seem like an intersting person and I'd like to talk to you some time. Check out my profile and if you want to talk drop me a hey and I'll message you. Take care, x" then she isn't my type anyway. Why? Because a down to earth woman who is really there to date will see it as a genuine ice breaker. Women who want "deep" emails are missing the boat. It's a dating and the average joe isn't a poet if you catch my drift. I want to date someone and if they want to be swept off their feet by email or won't drop the # by the 3rd email I'M OUT!!!
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