brokendreamz Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 Do you miss them?? I was with my ex for 8 years. She left me. I think about her everyday. I don't want her back now and sincerely hope she's happy... But i REALLY miss her!! I wonder if she misses me? Do you miss your ex, even though YOU dumped THEM???
fallenenvy Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 Yes.. i do. And i still feel bad that i ended it. I also find that when i wonder wait.. wtf happened... he does something that reminds me why i left in the first place. We are still friends and all.. but yes.. there are days i miss him and the relationship. I just have to remember why i ended it in the first place, smile at the good memories.. and keep on keeping on... As i've said across several threads.. not all dumpers are evil heartless beings out to hurt you. We are people with feelings just like everyone else. Im sure she still thinks of you but i am also sure she had her reasons for leaving; whatever they may be. Good for you tho.. for wishing her well.. and i hope you feel better
CopingGal Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 No. I don't miss my ex. I miss who he was pretending to be. I don't miss him. He psychologically and emotionally abused me and treated me terribly. He can burn in Hell for all I care.
Phanpooh Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 i don't miss all of them, but i miss a girl, 7y ago, i dumped her cause i know i'm not what she want.... it's over, but sometime, she come into my dream and said :"thank you for let me go"... sometime i talk with her, she still love me but accepted that, she got over me... we r happy for eachother, and hope our life is better,...
Kamila Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 Yes I do miss him. After the long post break-up period, it's the only conclusion I come to: I still have feelings for him. But somehow I accepted that he's not what I need and in the long-run I know that I'll have made the right decision. And he still has some growing up to do, find out what he wants in life. We were just in different phases of our lives.
Philosoraptor Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 Everyone questions whether they made the right decision. And everyone misses the good and comfortable parts, even if there were few. But in the end they were not happy enough in the relationship to stay. In times of rememberence many times they will reach out or even sleep with their ex because they had a bit of nostalgia... but the past sinks back in and they are gone again. 1
broken-and-lost Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 i remember when you first posted on these forums m8 glad your in a better place now and from what you said about her before i'm sure you still hold a place deep down for her. mine i'm not so sure............... but i still hold a place always will
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