Mark1 Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 So I met this girl on plenty of fish, and we started talking on there. We have talked on the phone several times, and get along GREAT, make each other laugh, etc. Anyways, she's a swinger, and has turned me on a lot by telling me her experiences. Problem is, she is 27m has kids, can get sex whenever she wants, so she wants a LTR. I do not, under any circumstance (I am 23). I told her this, and she said she sees no point in meeting up if we want different things. So we stopped talking. I contacted her again, with a bs story that I changed my mind. She bought it, and now wants to meet. I am just looking to get laid, I bet she'd be AMAZING in bed with her experience. But I do feel bad about lying to her. What should I do?
verhrzn Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 So I met this girl on plenty of fish, and we started talking on there. We have talked on the phone several times, and get along GREAT, make each other laugh, etc. Anyways, she's a swinger, and has turned me on a lot by telling me her experiences. Problem is, she is 27m has kids, can get sex whenever she wants, so she wants a LTR. I do not, under any circumstance (I am 23). I told her this, and she said she sees no point in meeting up if we want different things. So we stopped talking. I contacted her again, with a bs story that I changed my mind. She bought it, and now wants to meet. I am just looking to get laid, I bet she'd be AMAZING in bed with her experience. But I do feel bad about lying to her. What should I do? Um... don't lie to her? Seriously, just go pick up a bar chick who is looking for a one-night stand as revenge against her ex. Do NOT lie to get sex. Is this concept difficult?
kaylan Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 Wait wait wait... A swinger wants an LTR? And you actually have to lie to bed a swinger? Lmao lame. Youre a douche for needing to lie to get sex though.
NoMagicBullet Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 If you have any shred of conscience, you should feel bad about lying to her -- she was honest with you! And you were honest at first. Now you've lied, and she's going to find out sooner or later. It will only be worse for you later, especially if she finds out after sleeping with you. You can either come clean or come up with some other lie why you can't meet and never contact her again. If you do go through with meeting her just to get your dick wet, I hope she turns out to be a vengeful psychopath (hey, you never know who you meet online!) and unleashes a sh*tstorm of karmic chaos on your a**. There's nothing wrong with just wanting sex, but lying and using people to get it -- or anything else -- is just flat-out wrong. You're on POF. Throw this one back and keep fishing to find someone who wants what you want.
Author Mark1 Posted February 27, 2012 Author Posted February 27, 2012 If you have any shred of conscience, you should feel bad about lying to her -- she was honest with you! And you were honest at first. Now you've lied, and she's going to find out sooner or later. It will only be worse for you later, especially if she finds out after sleeping with you. You can either come clean or come up with some other lie why you can't meet and never contact her again. If you do go through with meeting her just to get your dick wet, I hope she turns out to be a vengeful psychopath (hey, you never know who you meet online!) and unleashes a sh*tstorm of karmic chaos on your a**. There's nothing wrong with just wanting sex, but lying and using people to get it -- or anything else -- is just flat-out wrong. You're on POF. Throw this one back and keep fishing to find someone who wants what you want. Thank you, you are right. Should I meet with her at all, or just message her right now?
CC12 Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 Should I meet with her at all, or just message her right now? Don't waste her time by meeting up with her. Just cancel.
Old Flame Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 All bed hopping girls want a long term relationship. thats why they bed hop. They want a sucker to fall in love and fulfill her fantasies.
Ninjainpajamas Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 Mark1...guess how she ended up getting kids? you willing to take that chance? She's a swinger but she wants a LTR? Did you even clarify what this means? maybe she's interested in an open relationship. Does she want to continue being a swinger? I'm surprised she can't see through your BS lie, that sounds a little fishy. Honestly what you should do is just be honest with her...tell her you're interested in hooking up but don't want a LTR. Just make it clear and if she wants to hook up with you she'll contact you. I'm not sure why a 27 yr old mom wants an LTR with a 23 yr old guy just trying to get laid out there, the whole thing is just weird though.
CC12 Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 All bed hopping girls want a long term relationship. thats why they bed hop. They want a sucker to fall in love and fulfill her fantasies. Yes, because women don't ever have sexual desire so if they have sex with men it can only mean that they are looking for "a sucker to fall in love and fulfill her fantasies." **** you.
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