anaksunamun34 Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 hello i have been dating a guy for 1 year almost .. we are livin in different countries for now but hes comin to see me time to time or im goin to his place and spendin time wit him.. he already told me that he loves me and he proposed me. but this time when he was here with me .. some s**t happened which made me dissapointed . i found out he s talking to random women occasionaly !! in 1 week time i saw him staring at some women next to me.. also when we were havin our breakfast in a restaurant , he started random conversation with the female waiter and asked if she had a boyfriend, whats her education etc...everytime she served u my bf was staring at her and talking to her... the other day we were in a mall having a coffee, i made a joke and the lady sitting next to our table heard my joke and she smiled.. my bf looked at her , smiled at her and asked her if she could speak english etc.. and our last dinner... we were eatin our dinner in a restaurant and he kissed me .. we smiled... then suddenly a cleaning lady/maid saw us and she smiled.. suddenly my bf saw her and shouted at her "woow shes beautiful"!! she giggled and didint say anything.. i was shocked!! i had a fight with my bf later on.. now im not talkin to him. he said he s sorry and apologized me . but im askin u guys.. :oshould i really trust this guy? do u think hes talking to random women and cheating on me behind my back or will he cheat on me if forgive him n i marry him ? this is important for me.. pls answer thnNX
Soxfaninfl Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 If you marry this guy, you will regret it. This guy is a huge flirt, and it looks like you will have a hard time keeping his attention. I'm sorry, but I think this guy will cheat on you if you marry. Divorce is expensive and very painful to go through with.
Ninjainpajamas Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 I can't believe you just sat there without saying anything throughout all of that. That just says a whole lot about your self-respect/esteem that you'd allow that kind of behavior right in front of your face. If he does this in front of you, imagine what he does behind your back. Half those women would have probably gave him a ton of crap just hearing about something like that, let alone him doing in front of them. The answer is this guy is definitely someone that seems unfaithful, unless he's some kind of dork and not really that attractive, or even smooth about it where women laugh at him. But If he's got half-a-brain and comes off charming instead of like a weirdo then chances are he does this on his on and scores some points, which makes me wonder how you even got with a guy like this? was he bull****ting you and saying all the right things? I wouldn't trust anything this guy says, look what he says to random women. If he can't give you his full attention while out with you and you live in another country, It's just almost endless what this dirtbag would probably do or say. 1
coopster Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 You really need to ask if you should be marrying this `thing`? Yes he`s cheating already. He`s cheating on you in front of you!! Why isn`t he just looking at you the whole time your together? Why is he calling another woman `beautiful` in front of you. He can do this in front of you, wtf is he doing behind your back??? Dump him, like yesterday 1
Author anaksunamun34 Posted February 26, 2012 Author Posted February 26, 2012 You really need to ask if you should be marrying this `thing`? Yes he`s cheating already. He`s cheating on you in front of you!! Why isn`t he just looking at you the whole time your together? Why is he calling another woman `beautiful` in front of you. He can do this in front of you, wtf is he doing behind your back??? Dump him, like yesterday yes ure rite.. he apologized me he told me he will never do this s**t again.. but i dont believe him ..everytime i think about him it makes me remember the way he was callin a maid "beautiful" in front of me ..
Author anaksunamun34 Posted February 26, 2012 Author Posted February 26, 2012 I can't believe you just sat there without saying anything throughout all of that. That just says a whole lot about your self-respect/esteem that you'd allow that kind of behavior right in front of your face. i didnt sit there without sayin anything.. we had a quarrel , i shouted at him and i let him how he made me feel...he said he s sorry .but the prooblem is i dont trust him anymore:(
Oxy Moronovich Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 Is that you in your avi? Hubba-hubba. The guy must be oversexed to wanna take his eyes of a cutie like you.
Oxy Moronovich Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 You changed yer avi immediately after I said you look hot. Now I look like I weirdo for complimenting a woman with a doll in her avi. Thanks. By the way, I see why your bf flirts with other women. You have crappy grammar. That's why he asks other women their education level. He's looking for someone with a much bigger *ahem* vocabulary than you have.
Author anaksunamun34 Posted February 26, 2012 Author Posted February 26, 2012 You changed yer avi immediately after I said you look hot. Now I look like I weirdo for complimenting a woman with a doll in her avi. Thanks. By the way, I see why your bf flirts with other women. You have crappy grammar. That's why he asks other women their education level. He's looking for someone with a much bigger *ahem* vocabulary than you have. i changed my avatar bcoz i didint want to publish myself on here. btw english is not my native language. hope u understand.. im not offended dont worry x
HollyBolly Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 hello i have been dating a guy for 1 year almost .. we are livin in different countries for now but hes comin to see me time to time or im goin to his place and spendin time wit him.. he already told me that he loves me and he proposed me. but this time when he was here with me .. some s**t happened which made me dissapointed . i found out he s talking to random women occasionaly !! in 1 week time i saw him staring at some women next to me.. also when we were havin our breakfast in a restaurant , he started random conversation with the female waiter and asked if she had a boyfriend, whats her education etc...everytime she served u my bf was staring at her and talking to her... the other day we were in a mall having a coffee, i made a joke and the lady sitting next to our table heard my joke and she smiled.. my bf looked at her , smiled at her and asked her if she could speak english etc.. and our last dinner... we were eatin our dinner in a restaurant and he kissed me .. we smiled... then suddenly a cleaning lady/maid saw us and she smiled.. suddenly my bf saw her and shouted at her "woow shes beautiful"!! she giggled and didint say anything.. i was shocked!! i had a fight with my bf later on.. now im not talkin to him. he said he s sorry and apologized me . but im askin u guys.. :oshould i really trust this guy? do u think hes talking to random women and cheating on me behind my back or will he cheat on me if forgive him n i marry him ? this is important for me.. pls answer thnNX Very simple. If you have serious doubts, don't marry him. My ex kept hinting that she wanted to marry me and I never even THOUGHT about proposing. Why? I felt something was not right. And I was right!
coopster Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 You changed yer avi immediately after I said you look hot. Now I look like I weirdo for complimenting a woman with a doll in her avi. Thanks. By the way, I see why your bf flirts with other women. You have crappy grammar. That's why he asks other women their education level. He's looking for someone with a much bigger *ahem* vocabulary than you have. No you look a `weirdo` ( and a j**k) for just typing what you have. Well done for belittling a new poster that you know NOTHING about!! 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 You changed yer avi immediately after I said you look hot. Now I look like I weirdo for complimenting a woman with a doll in her avi. Thanks. By the way, I see why your bf flirts with other women. You have crappy grammar. That's why he asks other women their education level. He's looking for someone with a much bigger *ahem* vocabulary than you have. Wow, that was really rude.
Ninjainpajamas Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 Is that you in your avi? Hubba-hubba. The guy must be oversexed to wanna take his eyes of a cutie like you. Thanks for ruining it for everyone else, now I'll never know! But seriously anaksunamun34, how do you expect to trust a man who's not trustworthy and doesn't deserve it. Apologizing really makes you think twice about it? I know you have feelings for this guy but he's definitely not a good guy, I only hope that you get your head out of the clouds long enough to realize it. You're setting yourself up for some big problems, he's sorry he in trouble, not that he did it! And do you really want to be with the kind of guy that has to be told how to be respectful and decent manners? I hope this guy is filthy rich or something because you're going get screwed out of this marriage in the end. 2
Author anaksunamun34 Posted February 27, 2012 Author Posted February 27, 2012 no ninjainpijamas.. hes not rich ..hes an ordinary guy...he just made me believe that he loved me for a year.. he was acting like a real gentleman.. but now i saw his real face and im so dissapointed thats it.. btw some people (some of my friends) tellin me thats hes just socializing with random people which makes me feel confused.. but believe me 8 people out of 10 are sharing the same opinions with u !
coopster Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 no ninjainpijamas.. hes not rich ..hes an ordinary guy...he just made me believe that he loved me for a year.. he was acting like a real gentleman.. but now i saw his real face and im so dissapointed thats it.. btw some people (some of my friends) tellin me thats hes just socializing with random people which makes me feel confused.. but believe me 8 people out of 10 are sharing the same opinions with u ! Maybe he does love you. One things for sure, he loves himself more! Find someone else that will love you like no other, and won`t look at another woman EVER, whether he is with you or not . 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 no ninjainpijamas.. hes not rich ..hes an ordinary guy...he just made me believe that he loved me for a year.. he was acting like a real gentleman.. but now i saw his real face and im so dissapointed thats it.. btw some people (some of my friends) tellin me thats hes just socializing with random people which makes me feel confused.. but believe me 8 people out of 10 are sharing the same opinions with u ! Well I think those people are making something pretty obvious, confusing because you feel conflicted inside. You want to believe that he's a better guy than that, but that's a pretty obvious thing for a guy to know...every guy knows not to look and hit on other women while he's with someone he supposedly "loves", that's just common sense. Now he may claim nothing ever happens from it or It's just innocent, but what If some girl were to find him appealing and just approach him? do you think he's really going to turn it down? I think not, a guy knows what he's doing when he's flirting with other women, he likes the attention, he likes feeling like he's got a way with women. So I don't know if you're taking advice from your female friends or male friends, but to us males we know exactly what that means and what It will lead up to...and that's cheating. And the fact that he does not even see you daily and you just went to visit him, you would have thought for those days he would have been all over you and been able to at least hide it while you were there. But he didn't, so consider yourself lucky with being able to experience that...I have a feeling this guy is using the same charm he uses with random women on you as well...It's part of his game. 1
Author anaksunamun34 Posted February 28, 2012 Author Posted February 28, 2012 (edited) well... ure right .. i dont have any feelings for him as i used to have, after seein his real face.even if hes not flirting, lets say hes socializing with random people, hes still unrespectful to me. he really hid himself very good for almost 1 year..he treated very good i guess we was wearing a mask.. now i saw his real face.. Edited February 28, 2012 by anaksunamun34
Nightsky Posted February 28, 2012 Posted February 28, 2012 You changed yer avi immediately after I said you look hot. Now I look like I weirdo for complimenting a woman with a doll in her avi. Thanks. By the way, I see why your bf flirts with other women. You have crappy grammar. That's why he asks other women their education level. He's looking for someone with a much bigger *ahem* vocabulary than you have. You Oxy Moronovich you ruined it for the rest of us! haha pm the description. i changed my avatar bcoz i didint want to publish myself on here. btw english is not my native language. hope u understand.. im not offended dont worry x No one will recognize you! He offended me because I know its what got you to change it. Wow, that was really rude. Oh c'mon its fun. We're just giving her the attention her bf gives to other women. Thanks for ruining it for everyone else, now I'll never know! But seriously anaksunamun34, how do you expect to trust a man who's not trustworthy and doesn't deserve it. Imagination can be better. Good advice. no ninjainpijamas.. hes not rich ..hes an ordinary guy...he just made me believe that he loved me for a year.. he was acting like a real gentleman.. but now i saw his real face and im so dissapointed thats it.. btw some people (some of my friends) tellin me thats hes just socializing with random people which makes me feel confused.. but believe me 8 people out of 10 are sharing the same opinions with u ! Some times it takes time to see who some one is. He might only get this way after dating for a while. Its very imature and hurtful to behave the way he was regaurdless of if he ever cheats. He acts like hes out at a bachelor party every time you guys go out. You know he wouldn't stand for you flirting with every man and commenting how great they look etc... I mean even if he is ok with that kind of thing it makes sense you are not. He needs to grow up. Very hurtful to take your number 1 girl out and treat her like less.
Author anaksunamun34 Posted February 29, 2012 Author Posted February 29, 2012 Because we don't know when we will die, we get to think of life as an inexhaustible well. How many more times will you watch the full moon rise? Perhaps twenty. And yet it all seems limitless...~ The Sheltering Sky WOOOOW I LIKE IT!
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