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Hello, i am a Austrian who has lived for ten years in England and have returned to Austria two years ago.

 

When i was marrying in 2004 i met an English Lady few weeks before. She was then married as well. She is five years older than me and has three kids. For three years i was visiting her regular at her town, where i moved then permanently in 2007 with my wife. In the next three years i should fall for her very much and in 2009 we decided to tell our partners about us. My wife decided to not leave me, but left me then alone in the town for three months. The English Lady meant to me that her husband decided to leave her because of me and i asked her in the three months i was alone to move to me, which she did not do. I decided then 2010 to go back to Austria and work on my marriage.

 

Last Year i met the English Lady again. She since has separated with her husband and lives with her son in a flat. In the last months we have spend several holidays together again and she says she want to be with me. However, she has since separated with her husband a relationship with one or more man, which she claims she does because she has no choice in maintaining her life.

 

I not feel good really about the whole thing but at the other side of the coin, feel want have her near to me

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Does your wife want to be in a mutually monogamous relationship? What did you do to work on your marriage? Have you gone to marriage counseling?

 

If so, where do you see yourself in 5 years...married to your wife; in a relationship with English Lady; single?

 

Have you ever had to go without something you want before? Do you think you have the strength to cut ties with EL?

 

Sorry about bombarding you with questions!

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