hART Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 Have you noticed a pattern of behavior that hurts your relationships? If so, have you found any solutions or compromises? How well do you stick to these solutions? What is important to you in a relationship? My answers: No having enough time to see my partner. I have to wait until college is over. It isn't working, but I have to try again soon. Fear of abandonment. I enjoy my time with people while they are there. I do okay at this, except I don't always have enough time for them or I feel like having an introverted night in. ... Acceptance is important, because I'm myself no matter what. Compassion is also good, it says this is a nice person who has a deeper ethical understanding of being a nice person.
CopingGal Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 patterns: 1-putting up with too much garbage and staying while they treat me like garbage. 2-Not being able to find a medium between my faults and little them treat me badly. I am very sensitive. When men to things to hurt me, I tell myself, that I should cut them slack because I am overeacting...because I am so sensitive...so I do. But them I do too much and they take advantage of me. Solutions: 1-therapy...I went before (I will go back when I can afford to get there). 2-Self help books 3-Having a relationship with myself and not looking for men. 4-Trying to make a good life for myself on my own....a life I can be proud of. That is what I am doing.
Mr Scorpio Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 What is important? Trust, attraction, and common interests.
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