Hoth Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 I guess I cannot read girls. The first girl I was attracted to gave me sign that she like me as well. So when I finally approach her, she apologize for sending out the wrong signal and said she was not interested. The second girl I approach blindly so I bought her cookie and knock at her door asking her if she wanted to go out to coffee with me sometime. She said yes, so I thought all was good. I knock at her door today but she wasn't there. I talk to her roommate and she said that she was not interested in me. 2 rejection in a period of only 2 month:( To the women on this forum and even the men, what am I doing wrong? I act very confidence and I feel good about myself but apparently that not enough. I am over it but it so awkward every time I see her with that guy as they live on the same floor. It hard to escape.
Old Flame Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 I guess I cannot read girls. The first girl I was attracted to gave me sign that she like me as well. So when I finally approach her, she apologize for sending out the wrong signal and said she was not interested. The second girl I approach blindly so I bought her cookie and knock at her door asking her if she wanted to go out to coffee with me sometime. She said yes, so I thought all was good. I knock at her door today but she wasn't there. I talk to her roommate and she said that she was not interested in me. 2 rejection in a period of only 2 month:( To the women on this forum and even the men, what am I doing wrong? I act very confidence and I feel good about myself but apparently that not enough. I am over it but it so awkward every time I see her with that guy as they live on the same floor. It hard to escape. Dude, trust me on this. 1. Buy yourself some "Jovan sex appeal aftershave/cologne. 2. Keep your breath clean. 3. Be natural, if you front, you always have to front - i.e. live a lie. 4. Get digits. Become phone friends first. 5. Girls like notes, cards and letters. Think about that.
Jynxx Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 Dude, trust me on this. 1. Buy yourself some "Jovan sex appeal aftershave/cologne. 2. Keep your breath clean. 3. Be natural, if you front, you always have to front - i.e. live a lie. 4. Get digits. Become phone friends first. 5. Girls like notes, cards and letters. Think about that. OP, trust me on this: 1. There's no magic bullet (pun somewhat intended). If someone gives you a simple answer to a complicated question, it's probably wrong 2. Take care of your looks and your smell 3. Act cool, don't put her as your first priority, let her subtly know you have other options but you do like her 4. DO NOT GET FRIENDZONED. Getting friendzoned is worse than getting turned down in a way. 5. Don't give her attention before she indicated that she likes getting attention from you. If you go sing a song under her balcony, depending on the context you can either be the love of her life or that weird extremely creepy guy she called the cops on.
riggs Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 Don't give up! Keep trying. Dating is a stressful, low odds game. You have to have a thick skin and the ability to move on quickly.
ascendotum Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 You've only had 2 rejections...just 2. Buck up, there's more to come. Who said dating was easy and to expect a 100% strike rate. I undertsand you're disappointed, especially when you have your heart set on a girl, and her knocking you back feels like a rejection that you are not good enough for her, but not every girl that approached you would be embraced I bet. Its way too hard to say what you are doing wrong, with this little bit of info, and from what there is, you did not nothing wrong. Its not like you have hit up 50 girls for 50 rejections. Good on ya for approaching blindly....dont worry you will have success soon enough.
somedude81 Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 Welcome to being a man. Please check your balls bags at the door.
Author Hoth Posted February 26, 2012 Author Posted February 26, 2012 Dude, trust me on this. 1. Buy yourself some "Jovan sex appeal aftershave/cologne. 2. Keep your breath clean. 3. Be natural, if you front, you always have to front - i.e. live a lie. 4. Get digits. Become phone friends first. 5. Girls like notes, cards and letters. Think about that. 1. I have Abercrombie "FIERCE" cologne which was rank one of the best cologne out there. 2. I always keep my breath clean 3. I am up front 4. Roger 5. I thought that only work in H.S?
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