Author xpaperxcutx Posted February 26, 2012 Author Posted February 26, 2012 Sounds like a cool boss...whats ya job? Something private. Anyways, I have two days off this week and I've been texting him and wanting to meet up. He doesn't reply to my text until 4 hours later telling me he has no battery. He doesn't even bother to ask me how was my day. He just told me he was going to the gym and calling me later.
Oxy Moronovich Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 Something private. Translation=escort. papercut's boss=cranky mamasan who runs her own happy ending parlor. LOL. I just love to make fun of papercut. It's such an easy thing to do. Anyways, I have two days off this week and I've been texting him and wanting to meet up. He doesn't reply to my text until 4 hours later telling me he has no battery. He doesn't even bother to ask me how was my day. He just told me he was going to the gym and calling me later. LMAO. It's obvious you're looking for excuses to complain about the guy. My phone makes one small vibrating buzz to indicate a text. It's so small sometimes I don't even notice it. Only after I unlock my phone do I notice I've received a text, sometimes. Plus, I hate texting. Many guys do. I'm not interested in chatting via text. So the courtesy I show to women over the phone doesn't extend to text. Yer dude might feel the same way. Get a real cell phone plan already, girl.
kaylan Posted February 26, 2012 Posted February 26, 2012 Translation=escort. papercut's boss=cranky mamasan who runs her own happy ending parlor. LOL. I just love to make fun of papercut. It's such an easy thing to do. I wouldnt be surprised actually haha. Usually people I know who were secretive about their jobs had some really interesting things going on. Super Secret, Secret Squirrel LMAO. It's obvious you're looking for excuses to complain about the guy. My phone makes one small vibrating buzz to indicate a text. It's so small sometimes I don't even notice it. Only after I unlock my phone do I notice I've received a text, sometimes. Plus, I hate texting. Many guys do. I'm not interested in chatting via text. So the courtesy I show to women over the phone doesn't extend to text. Yer dude might feel the same way. Get a real cell phone plan already, girl. You gotta point bro. However, at the same time, Ive seen how myself and my guy friends behave about our phones when weve met someone new we like. We check it pretty often...just to see if we missed anything...or to check the time. Or to watch mobile porn. Gotta love the 21st century lolz
Star Gazer Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 I mean just the way he worded everything, and refusing to understand I have work the next day is what bothers me. It makes him sound a little immature. Which was how, exactly? Because you didn't tell anyone in this thread. My job is important to me. My boss literally drives an hour everyday to provide transportation for my coworkers and I, out of respect I cannot just tell him " oh, I can get in work tomorrow by myself". That's...really, really bizarre, not only that your boss comes to fetch you, but that "out of respect" you wouldn't tell him on ONE occasion that you'll be able to get there on your own. Why would your boss care? Does your boss not want you spending the night with a man? If so, why? The only thing I'm aware of is, he wants to see me and I, him. But while I'm trying to make an effort (especially with my work schedule) to give my free time to him, I feel like he's asking alot of me to accommodate him ( as with what happened). That's quite a conclusion from ONE instance, and it wasn't even your FREE time! You were trying to kill two birds with one stone (see your friend and him at the same time), and he's hardly asking ALOT from you given that you ALREADY SLEPT WITH HIM. 2
Author xpaperxcutx Posted February 27, 2012 Author Posted February 27, 2012 Translation=escort. papercut's boss=cranky mamasan who runs her own happy ending parlor. LOL. I just love to make fun of papercut. It's such an easy thing to do. LMAO. It's obvious you're looking for excuses to complain about the guy. My phone makes one small vibrating buzz to indicate a text. It's so small sometimes I don't even notice it. Only after I unlock my phone do I notice I've received a text, sometimes. Plus, I hate texting. Many guys do. I'm not interested in chatting via text. So the courtesy I show to women over the phone doesn't extend to text. Yer dude might feel the same way. Get a real cell phone plan already, girl. Have you ever met an escort who can't afford minutes? I'm not an escort. Quit it
Author xpaperxcutx Posted February 27, 2012 Author Posted February 27, 2012 (edited) Which was how, exactly? Because you didn't tell anyone in this thread. Unless you weren't paying attention, he asked me to spend the night over at his place. That's...really, really bizarre, not only that your boss comes to fetch you, but that "out of respect" you wouldn't tell him on ONE occasion that you'll be able to get there on your own. Why would your boss care? Does your boss not want you spending the night with a man? If so, why? My job provides transportation from the city to Long Island, it's an hours drive. My boss makes a round trip everyday to pick me up and then take me home. But he doesn't just do it for me, he does it for my other coworkers. It isn't that I don't appreciate the guy's offer to drive me to work, but my boss never picks up just one person, it's not worth the trip. Am I suppose to tell my co worker, hey, sorry you can't work today because I'm not going with you guys. It's a carpool thing. And my boss has nothing to do with my love life, I just don't want my personal life to cross over into my work. That's quite a conclusion from ONE instance, and it wasn't even your FREE time! You were trying to kill two birds with one stone (see your friend and him at the same time), and he's hardly asking ALOT from you given that you ALREADY SLEPT WITH HIM. SG, you seem to think just because I spent one night over at his place, it's very likely I'll do it again. And I didn't sleep WITH him over, I just crashed on his bed. Don't twist my words. I rarely have time to see my best friend as is, and given that she was off that day AND I was getting off work eary that very day, I wanted to see her. The reason I invited him was because I wanted to see him, and if I was killing two birds with one stone, then at least I'm spending what little free time I have with two very important people in my life. There I said it, I don't know why but I really like him and he can be an important person in my life. But there's just so much miscommunication that makes me question him, that I do not know how to proceed. Edited February 27, 2012 by xpaperxcutx
Professor X Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 To much drama and over-analyzing for such a short period of knowing someone. What a turnoff.
zengirl Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 Unless you weren't paying attention, he asked me to spend the night over at his place. I think she got that, but you said it was HOW he said it---that's still what he said. Was there something in particular about how he said it that was disturbing? I mean, you slept over his place before, so . . . why would he imagine it'd upset you? SG, you seem to think just because I spent one night over at his place, it's very likely I'll do it again. Here's my point: Since it was the first date, any guy would assume that as well. Almost anyone would. Unless you clearly said otherwise and asserted a boundary against it. And asking you to do something you've already voluntarily done very early on is not disrespectful . . . it's actually normal! What I think is you're just not really into this guy and looking for outs. You just WANT to be into him because he seems like a good guy, but you've not been attracted to him and don't want to go out of your way for him. And. . . this isn't going to work out, if that's the case. You're being hypercritical about this situation, unless there's more to what he's said than is here.
Star Gazer Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 To much drama and over-analyzing for such a short period of knowing someone. What a turnoff. Agreed. If I were him, or a fly on the wall of this analysis, I'd run far, far away.
Star Gazer Posted February 27, 2012 Posted February 27, 2012 I think she got that, but you said it was HOW he said it---that's still what he said. Was there something in particular about how he said it that was disturbing? I mean, you slept over his place before, so . . . why would he imagine it'd upset you? Exactly. Here's my point: Since it was the first date, any guy would assume that as well. Almost anyone would. Unless you clearly said otherwise and asserted a boundary against it. And asking you to do something you've already voluntarily done very early on is not disrespectful . . . it's actually normal! And that was MY point too. It doesn't matter what I think she would've done, what matters is what he did/expected given the precedent she'd already set and for some reason NOW considers disrespectful and everyone else considers to be booty-callish. The fact is, Paper created the entire situation of which she's now upset HERSELF, and is putting all the blame on his shoulders. What I think is you're just not really into this guy and looking for outs. You just WANT to be into him because he seems like a good guy, but you've not been attracted to him and don't want to go out of your way for him. And. . . this isn't going to work out, if that's the case. You're being hypercritical about this situation, unless there's more to what he's said than is here. Agreed again. I also think she's awfully hypersensitive about this whole sleeping-over thing, which makes me wonder a lot about other things.
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