Canguy Posted February 25, 2012 Posted February 25, 2012 Just had a quick question to clear my mind on this. Theres this girl I used to work with, first and second date went well, after that she kept blowing me off, but at the sametime stringing me along. Shes a big attention seeker and insecure, rude and sorta promiscuous. One day out of the blues she started to spread her legs at me and showed me she liked me, but I didnt really get turned on or make any moves on her because she was always showing signs, and then blowing me off, or even rescheduling a date and then no follow up. Am I normal for not going for her despite her suddenly coming on strong, or am did I make a bad move? I just thought at the time this girl is full of games, and also rejected me a few times in the past and suddenly after months and months she came on to me, so I was very hesistent to move in to. Thanks a lot.
Ninjainpajamas Posted February 25, 2012 Posted February 25, 2012 After no contact from the second date I would have just completely shut her out and paid no attention to her If she was blowing me off. I mean that's pretty much where you had your chance and you struck out there...but that might be a good thing since this girl gets around a bit. She's an attention whore as well It seems like from what you're saying, she probably needs someone or several men chasing her. Those women myself are not my interest so I never chase them, a waste of my time personally. But If you have a liking to her you might be able to catch her when she comes around, she might give you some of her not so sacred jello. However, In my book you don't play games unless you want to. If it ain't there you walk away, it's as simple as that...you don't let a woman play you like a yo-yo and do the hot-and-cold, because you think she might be interested in you. She's either interested or not, and If she's not there's plenty of women in there...it's no sweat off my back. And If she's an attention whore...total turn-off for me and I've already lost interest.
Author Canguy Posted February 25, 2012 Author Posted February 25, 2012 After no contact from the second date I would have just completely shut her out and paid no attention to her If she was blowing me off. I mean that's pretty much where you had your chance and you struck out there...but that might be a good thing since this girl gets around a bit. She's an attention whore as well It seems like from what you're saying, she probably needs someone or several men chasing her. Those women myself are not my interest so I never chase them, a waste of my time personally. But If you have a liking to her you might be able to catch her when she comes around, she might give you some of her not so sacred jello. However, In my book you don't play games unless you want to. If it ain't there you walk away, it's as simple as that...you don't let a woman play you like a yo-yo and do the hot-and-cold, because you think she might be interested in you. She's either interested or not, and If she's not there's plenty of women in there...it's no sweat off my back. And If she's an attention whore...total turn-off for me and I've already lost interest. Great points bro, thanks a lot man, honestly. I know I kinda let my mind slip and got a little too hung up on her, I shoulda dropped her long ago, but when its with someone you work right beside, kinda tough you know! Cheers.
ja123 Posted February 25, 2012 Posted February 25, 2012 You did the right thing. This woman is a tease. That act gets tiring quick!
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