HurtinginVA Posted June 6, 2004 Posted June 6, 2004 Okay in order to know whats going on, refer to http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t40504/ So I get a text message from this guy this morning. "This sucks. I miss you. I wish I could talk to you". I call him, left a message saying call me. He calls. Wants to know what Im doing for the day. Mentions the water park. Says he's on his way to church and will call me when he gets out. That was 2 hours ago. How long does church usually last? I know its a non-denominational church if that matters. Should I go if he invites me to go with him and his daughter? I want to go............
shamen Posted June 6, 2004 Posted June 6, 2004 I read your first post... Yes, you all probably went into the relationship too fast. My biggest suggestion is to just be careful. It sounds like you do want to see him. Maybe you could hear him out. If it's all good news on his end (ie. dating again), take it much slower. More casual. Tell him that too, if he mentions dating again. Church, where I used to go as a Catholic, lasted max an hour.
LoveHerMadly Posted June 7, 2004 Posted June 7, 2004 I wish I had some advice to offer you, but unfortunately I am involved in a very similar situation. I am crushed and seeking answers myself. Just try to hang in there, I know what you are going through and take some comfort in knowing that you aren't the only one that this is happening to. Sometimes it feels like you are on an island and nobody knows the pain you are living with. Trust me, you aren't alone. I hope it works out for you, and me too.
overseas2004 Posted June 7, 2004 Posted June 7, 2004 I always found that accepting gifts is a dangerous proposition especially when it starts to fast like your relationship. Like I have to ask but "what were you thinking"??? Anyway, I hope he called you but if he did. I hope you have the strength that it takes to act the right way from now on and only let the relationship progress step by step.
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