Guys: If your gf all of a sudden stops having sex with u, what's your first thought?

[FrustratedStandards]

I prefer ladies not to answer this one, simply because we know why we do it.

 

I'm just curious as to what a man's first reaction is. In my situation, it was because I lost attraction to my latest datee, but this isn't always the case.

 

Gentlemen, how do you react to it and what are your initial thoughts as to why?

[ptp]

If everything else was normal like we were't fighting or something very stressful didn't happen in her life etc...

 

Then I would think if she isn't sleeping with me, she is probably sleeping with someone else.

Edited February 24, 2012 by ptp

[USCGAviator]

My first thought would be "I wonder what my screen name should be for POF"

[ThaWholigan]

If she stops having sex with me my first thought will be "That beat I was making last night, I gotta finish that and sell it".

 

Then she will wake to find me gone, never to be seen again

Edited February 24, 2012 by ThaWholigan

[Art_Critic]

Just dating and not in a LTR my first thought would be what is going on in her life and if the lack of sex continued past a few dates my second thought would be that this relationship is ending.

[Maladjusted]

Have you asked her why sex has stopped?

[oaks]

First thought: Is it that time of the month.

 

Subsequent thoughts: Is she just not in the mood? What did I do wrong? Is she unhappy? How do I raise this in conversation?

[Imajerk17]

I would think that something aint right. She has checked out of the relationship.

 

--She is upset about something.

 

--She is disgusted/turned off about something.

 

--There is another guy in the picture.

[InJest]

Back off, and start looking for other women.