Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 You know what I hate? How we get these over sexualized, usually female, stars...Brittney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Miley Cyrus..who become famous when they are quite young. Then, when they finally develop a fully mature female figure and "fill-out", they get casterated for it. They are overly sexualized as developing young people, then made fun of for having the audacity to get a full grown adult body. There is something WRONG with this.
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 We'd all be better off if everyone stopped having sex altogether. Would solve an awful lot of the world's problems...
wuggle Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 You know what I hate? How we get these over sexualized, usually female, stars...Brittney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Miley Cyrus..who become famous when they are quite young. Then, when they finally develop a fully mature female figure and "fill-out", they get casterated for it. They are overly sexualized as developing young people, then made fun of for having the audacity to get a full grown adult body. There is something WRONG with this. This is basicaly because the 'advertising agencies' understand our 'base' human instinct and use it to manipulate us, to make us buy thier cr*p. We are 'programmed' (from our neanderthal roots) to find any 'post puberty' female to be a 'suitable' sexual mate. This does not mean that as a civilised society this remains the case. Most of us have evolved, we can stop ourselves getting a hard on about a teanager because we realise that they are just a kid and we stop ourselves from 'using' them, allowing them to grow up a little first. We'd all be better off if everyone stopped having sex altogether. Would solve an awful lot of the world's problems... No, that's just silly
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 This is basicaly because the 'advertising agencies' understand our 'base' human instinct and use it to manipulate us, to make us buy thier cr*p. We are 'programmed' (from our neanderthal roots) to find any 'post puberty' female to be a 'suitable' sexual mate. This does not mean that as a civilised society this remains the case. Most of us have evolved, we can stop ourselves getting a hard on about a teanager because we realise that they are just a kid and we stop ourselves from 'using' them, allowing them to grow up a little first. "Post puberty" would infer a female that is done going through puberty. Most of these girls are still going through it even as the rose to fame. And then when they reach maturity, are castereated for it. There are actually statistics that show that when a girl is too young or a woman too old, there is a higher risk for loosing the baby then someone who is the prime of their sexuality and fertinlity. 15-17 year olds aren't in their prime. I think it has more to do with pushing envelops and marketing to teens themselves since last time I read, teens had the most disposable income to spend on junk these girls sold. I don't think they put Brittney Spears up there in a school girl outfit so old guys would buy her cds and go to her concerts. They did that so that young teens would. Unfortunetly, some old guys WOULD go to her concerts but I don't think that has anyting to do with a "base" desire so much as a unfully grown one. Real men want real women. Not developing teenagers. And same is true for women. Real women want real men. Not developing, teenagers.
Nightsky Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 You are missing the point. Its not about looks. Its about the mind. Men and women here can agree that some teenagers look damn good despite their age. But us adults who dont wanna use youngsters for sex would steer clear. Im sure women can admit Taylor Lautner had a hot body even though he was 16 when the Twilight Saga started. The same way guys had been fawning over Britney Spears back when she was under 18. Its one thing to acknowledge they are sexually attractive. Its another thing to act on it. We arent gonna sit here and lie and say that those who are sexually maturing arent attractive at all, but we will say that they still do not have the mentality of an adult...hence why people call them kids. Some men actually dont wanna abuse their power by exploiting young women for their sexual gain. Some dudes have morals about this sort of thing. They are kids. Plain and simple. Heres a story. I was 24 over the summer and met a girl near the bar. She was waiting for a friend to bring her a fake ID to get in. She told me she was going into senior year at Boston College and wasnt 21 yet. So I talked to the bouncer and got him to let her in since hes cool with me and that was a bar I frequented. We hung out during the night and stuff...she seemed alright, but just tad too immature. We chilled, kissed a little and then went outside. I ended up meeting some of her friends outside later and a couple of them seemed rather young. She ends up telling me shes a senior in high school about to go to Boston College. Aka 17 and about to turn 18. And I put on the breaks right there. Why you ask. Because while she did look older and was technically legal...I have no interest in girls I see as kids. 20 was a stretch for me at that time as most chicks under 21 I find to be very immature. So to find out she was actually about to be 18 made me feel like I was taking candy from a baby. Personally I like a chick who is on my level. What can some chick whos 7 years younger than me, have in common with me? 17 was long ago for me and I remember being as immature as she was at that age. I could walk circles around her if I wanted to but that wasnt my goal. Im not trying to take advantage of the naivety of younger people. Its about the mental dude, not the physical. I acknowledge their physical maturity, but without the mental maturity....its all unequal and not fair to the younger folk. Their appeal is created by men who control that industry. Those in power create the sexual standard and use that to influence the rest of us. Its rather simple. Its why black men and asian women got fetishized over the years. Simple look at tv and movies. A lot of the time when I see interracial couples its a brother or an asian gal as the other party. Team Kaylan. Seconded. The people who are arguing against Kaylan are saying the same thing he is for the most part. He just said he realizes people find teens sexy and even women do it. He used twighlight as an example. Just look at Justin Beiber if you need more. He then admits he unknowingly hit on a 17 year old. Comming from the rumor mill his story could have been told diferently. So all I'm saying is we needed more details. Through the rumor mill Kaylans story could have been spun against him. He could have a girl comming here saying "he hit on a 17 year old."
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Most men are sexualy attracted to teenagers. A 15 year old can be just as sexy as a 18,19 year old. Maybe I am naive but I have never see a 15 year old male or female that was a sexy as a grown 21 year old woman or man. I seriously hope that isn't true, that most men are attracted to 15 year olds. Because I question the overall health of men that are attracted to teenagers that are still in the process of growing and developing both physically and mentally over being attracted to a matured female. Nightsky, maybe YOU are attracted to 15 year olds and it makes you feel better to claim all men are like you but I think there are many men out there better then that. Otherwise, men are in a very sad and disappointing state of affairs if that's how men are. And I feel sorry for them and the grown adult women in their lives.
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Maybe I am naive but I have never see a 15 year old male or female that was a sexy as a grown 21 year old woman or man. I seriously hope that isn't true, that most men are attracted to 15 year olds. Because I question the overall health of men that are attracted to teenagers that are still in the process of growing and developing both physically and mentally over being attracted to a matured female. Nightsky, maybe YOU are attracted to 15 year olds and it makes you feel better to claim all men are like you but I think there are many men out there better then that. Otherwise, men are in a very sad and disappointing state of affairs if that's how men are. And I feel sorry for them and the grown adult women in their lives. I was routinely mistaken for a 30 year old when I was 15. Even now at 24 I get routinely mistaken for a guy in his 40s. Some people just have an older look to them.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 I was routinely mistaken for a 30 year old when I was 15. Even now at 24 I get routinely mistaken for a guy in his 40s. Some people just have an older look to them. That might happen once in awhile but it's hardly true for the majority in an age group.
Nightsky Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Maybe I am naive but I have never see a 15 year old male or female that was a sexy as a grown 21 year old woman or man. I seriously hope that isn't true, that most men are attracted to 15 year olds. Because I question the overall health of men that are attracted to teenagers that are still in the process of growing and developing both physically and mentally over being attracted to a matured female. Nightsky, maybe YOU are attracted to 15 year olds and it makes you feel better to claim all men are like you but I think there are many men out there better then that. Otherwise, men are in a very sad and disappointing state of affairs if that's how men are. And I feel sorry for them and the grown adult women in their lives. How old do you think most models are using sex appeal to sell clothes to other women? The majority are not over 18. They naturally look more youthful because they are and that includes having a more slender frame. I don’t reduce people down to how they look in a picture or wearing clothes on a runway so I look for more in attraction. But on looks alone a teenager can certainly be attractive. In fact there is nothing wrong with telling a teen or their parent or who ever that they are attractive in a respectful manner. Laws like age of consent laws are treated very seriously and for that and many other reasons I wouldn’t want to date or have sex with a 15 year old. It’s very silly to act like there aren’t 15 year olds who could attract a person who isn’t a pedophile or some how deranged or sick. I think the fact that a person violates a law with very serious consequences makes them much more likely to be deranged. Every guy I know has made a joke about jail bait or at least acknowledged that 18 isn’t some how a magical cut off for sex appeal. The magazines and runway models make my point for me. I’m not saying guys are out there wishing they could date 15 year olds which is legal in a lot of places, I’m just saying 15 years old are capable of being attractive. I’m also saying lets not just crucify men on rumors. The OP herself has no idea what happened. She says sexting but I really think she means flirting. If all he did was call the girl sexy then yes inappropriate, but hardly a crime against humanity. He was drunk and trying to booty call his ex from the sounds of it. The story just makes no sense at all. I feel sorry for you if you’re so repressed you can’t see the world for what it is.
Mutant Debutante Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 I feel sorry for you if you’re so repressed you can’t see the world for what it is. Whoa. I don't know if you meant it that way, but that came off super condescending. Let me ask you this, you ever consider that just about EVERY woman on this thread has said that hitting on or sexting or even maybe just flirting with fifteen year olds is wrong and gross for a thirty five year old man, not just because we're repressed, but because we have actually BEEN fifteen year old girls? We know that fifteen year old girls are attractive to creeps in ways you can't imagine, because we have been through old guys hitting on us and sexualizing us and flirting with us? And apparantly it was bad for us in some way, since we're all here saying UGH. Btw, it's weird how much YOU and some other guys here are blowing this out of proportion, calling it a crucifixion or a lynch mob or saying the women are calling it a crime against humanity. Crimes against humanity, lynchings, crucifixions, wow, really? What people are talking about is dumping a guy and finding one who doesn't hit on underage teenagers. I mean, get a grip, guys. And to the other poster who mentioned emancipated minors several times, I was a 15 year old girl living on the street. I have a little inside perspective. I worked two jobs under the table and I had been through **** you wouldn't believe. I eventually did get legally emancipated. And the LAST thing I needed then was some 35 year old thinking I was a nice piece of fresh meat for him. I was having sex with people closer to MY OWN AGE and I was living in a different world from most 15 year olds but I was still totally not ready for the mindtrip of a 35 year old. I really think it's weird that you are having so much trouble getting it that the ages involved are a big deal. 5
Nightsky Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Whoa. I don't know if you meant it that way, but that came off super condescending. It was heart felt I do feel sorry for closeminded people. What she wrote was condescending. Let me ask you this' date=' you ever consider that just about EVERY woman on this thread has said that hitting on or sexting or even maybe just flirting with fifteen year olds is wrong and gross for a thirty five year old man, not just because we're repressed, but because we have actually BEEN fifteen year old girls? We know that fifteen year old girls are attractive to creeps in ways you can't imagine, because we have been through old guys hitting on us and sexualizing us and flirting with us? And apparantly it was bad for us in some way, since we're all here saying UGH. [/quote'] I feel men know men better than women. We as men are also more likely to suffer aggression from other men. As a young teenager I wasn't hit on regularly though one man did it on me once it was no ordeal. What we know is the hatred society feels toward young men. All I'm saying is it doesn't make you deranged to find 15 year old girls attractive. Most if not all normal men would find a pretty 15 year old girl attractive. If its a crime then its easy for in control men to look the other way. Women do far more to sexualize young girls by reacting so positivly to young underage models. Thats fact. So why act like a man is deranged for seeing attraction in a 15 year old? Btw' date=' it's weird how much YOU and some other guys here are blowing this out of proportion, calling it a crucifixion or a lynch mob or saying the women are calling it a crime against humanity. Crimes against humanity, lynchings, crucifixions, wow, really? What people are talking about is dumping a guy and finding one who doesn't hit on underage teenagers. I mean, get a grip, guys. [/quote'] This isn't something I'd just be talking about while out and about. If I hear some wome complaining about dirty old men I'll just let it be. The thing is in this forum and this thread the OP has used charged words "hit on 15 year old" and "sexting"... but when asked for details she gave none. Just said strange stuff like if it was bad I guess the father would have killed him. Her information comes from an ex of his, not exactly a reliable source. Did she get shown the txt conversation. What does he say he did. Hit on her? Like did he ask her out on a date and the girl said no. Who answers their fathers girlfriends phone and starts txting back and forth with a guy trying to get her father girlfriend... its all just so odd and there are no details. And to the other poster who mentioned emancipated minors several times' date=' I was a 15 year old girl living on the street. I have a little inside perspective. I worked two jobs under the table and I had been through **** you wouldn't believe. I eventually did get legally emancipated. And the LAST thing I needed then was some 35 year old thinking I was a nice piece of fresh meat for him. I was having sex with people closer to MY OWN AGE and I was living in a different world from most 15 year olds but I was still totally not ready for the mindtrip of a 35 year old. I really think it's weird that you are having so much trouble getting it that the ages involved are a big deal. [/quote'] I agree we need to protect and educate our youth. The thing is this goes beyond that. We don't know what happened in this situation. Just finding a 15 year old attractive doesn't make you weird or crazy.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Nightsky How old do you think most models are using sex appeal to sell clothes to other women? The majority are not over 18. They naturally look more youthful because they are and that includes having a more slender frame. Well first, the fashion industry is pretty legendary for it's too skinny models and it's unhealthy ideals. It isn't exactly a grand example of positive and healthy ideals for women. (I think I read something where the average model is expected to be even thinner then a decade ago.) Young girls that are used to model clothes aren't used because they are the epitome of womanly figure. Of the "ideal". They are used for exactly the reason you pointed out, a thinner frame. Which speaks of the fact that they are NOT YET FULL GROWN. Clearly the fashion industry has always liked rib showing women. Yet most full grown adult women will never be model thin. This goes back to the over sexualiation of young girls and their young bodies, to the point when they fully mature into real women, they are made to feel fat. It happened to Brittney. It happend to Christina. It happened to Jessica Simpson. It happened to Miley. These girls are sexualized as teenagers then when they actually becoem fully mature women and fill out ,they are called fat. This is dipolorable. Do men like girls who are growing into women or full grown women? I think most men like full grown women. Just becaues the fashion industry does use young girls, doesn't speak of a healthy mindset about women's or girls bodies. Second, I don't look to runways to buy my next outfit. I might like current trends when I see them in the store, but that's about it. I don't sit around looking at models and wanting to be like them. I infact don't know many, if any, women that do. A woman is more likely to want to have the full grown adult body of Kim K then a 15 year old teenager. Especially that of a overly skinny model. Third, I am not sure who mostly models. I think the majority probably are over 18-25. Because I believe there is actually a rule that says that models can't be younger then 16. Although I think some designers probably get around this. However, I don't think the majority of models are of the 15 age group. I don’t reduce people down to how they look in a picture or wearing clothes on a runway so I look for more in attraction. But on looks alone a teenager can certainly be attractive. In fact there is nothing wrong with telling a teen or their parent or who ever that they are attractive in a respectful manner. It's one thing to notice the clean good looks of a younger person, even an adorable 10 year old. It's another for an adult to project lustful thoughts on someone that still isn't fully mature. Mentally or physically. There is a key difference here. It’s very silly to act like there aren’t 15 year olds who could attract a person who isn’t a pedophile or some how deranged or sick. I think the fact that a person violates a law with very serious consequences makes them much more likely to be deranged. It's very silly to act like 15 year olds are fully grown developed adults. Every guy I know has made a joke about jail bait or at least acknowledged that 18 isn’t some how a magical cut off for sex appeal. The magazines and runway models make my point for me. I’m not saying guys are out there wishing they could date 15 year olds which is legal in a lot of places, I’m just saying 15 years old are capable of being attractive. I’m also saying lets not just crucify men on rumors. The OP herself has no idea what happened. She says sexting but I really think she means flirting. If all he did was call the girl sexy then yes inappropriate, but hardly a crime against humanity. He was drunk and trying to booty call his ex from the sounds of it. The story just makes no sense at all. As you can tell from the responses here, most women have little respect for grown men that, drunk or not, flirt with teenagers. Most women consider this grounds for dumping. Accept it or don't. Most women aren't gonna want to be around a grown adult man that flirts with little teenagers. I don't know what kind of men you are friends with but I do know of certain kind of guys that make "jailbait" jokes. These guys I stay far away from. Any woman would be smart to. Because it means he's thinking a certain way that is really quite creepy. I feel sorry for you if you’re so repressed you can’t see the world for what it is. I feel sorry for you that you think most men are attracted to 15 year olds. I do not agree that most good, healthy minded mature men are attracted to girls caught in the process of maturing. I, and most women, are going to want to be with a man that's attracted to women. Not little teenager girls. And I can't agree more when Mutant Deb said: Btw, it's weird how much YOU and some other guys here are blowing this out of proportion, calling it a crucifixion or a lynch mob or saying the women are calling it a crime against humanity. Crimes against humanity, lynchings, crucifixions, wow, really? What people are talking about is dumping a guy and finding one who doesn't hit on underage teenagers. I mean, get a grip, guys.
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Btw, it's weird how much YOU and some other guys here are blowing this out of proportion, calling it a crucifixion or a lynch mob or saying the women are calling it a crime against humanity. Crimes against humanity, lynchings, crucifixions, wow, really? What people are talking about is dumping a guy and finding one who doesn't hit on underage teenagers. I mean, get a grip, guys. They weren't together at the time and it's not a big deal. We don't even know what exactly "sexting" consisted of. Naked pictures, really graphic language, or just harmless flirty talk? As it stands right now it would very unreasonable to dump the guy.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 They weren't together at the time and it's not a big deal. We don't even know what exactly "sexting" consisted of. Naked pictures, really graphic language, or just harmless flirty talk? As it stands right now it would very unreasonable to dump the guy. No. An unreasonable reason to dumping a guy is if he doesn't pick up his wet towels. It's not unreasonable to dump a guy who flirts with 15 year olds. Before you or not. And I don't know about anyone else but it doesn't matter what kind of "sexting" it was. Naked pictures, graphic language or "harmless" flirting are all indicitive of a kind of man I, and obviously by this thread, most women, woudn't want to be with when it's directed to a 15 YEAR OLD.
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 No. An unreasonable reason to dumping a guy is if he doesn't pick up his wet towels. It's not unreasonable to dump a guy who flirts with 15 year olds. Before you or not. And I don't know about anyone else but it doesn't matter what kind of "sexting" it was. Naked pictures, graphic language or "harmless" flirting are all indicitive of a kind of man I, and obviously by this thread, most women, woudn't want to be with when it's directed to a 15 YEAR OLD. Well, if you're a picky person then I guess that's a fair point. A girl would have to do an awful lot of bad things for me to say "be gone". To each their own though. To be honest though, most women in the real world would be all over this guy.
kaylan Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 *All my posts in this thread.* I feel this is better than repeating myself. 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 I feel this is better than repeating myself. You've never met a registered sex offender before have you? Those guys rarely have trouble getting dates.
Nightsky Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 As you can tell from the responses here, most women have little respect for grown men that, drunk or not, flirt with teenagers. Most women consider this grounds for dumping. Accept it or don't. Most women aren't gonna want to be around a grown adult man that flirts with little teenagers. I don't know what kind of men you are friends with but I do know of certain kind of guys that make "jailbait" jokes. These guys I stay far away from. Any woman would be smart to. Because it means he's thinking a certain way that is really quite creepy. You're just very judgmental and out of touch. I don't condone inapropriate behavior. I have no idea what flirt, hit on, or sexting means. Thats all I'm saying. I'm also saying an exgf isn't exactly the most reliable source. I'm also arguing subtopics which sprouted up like he's a pedo or any man who sees any attraction in a teenager under 18 is crazy. I feel sorry for you that you think most men are attracted to 15 year olds. I do not agree that most good, healthy minded mature men are attracted to girls caught in the process of maturing. I, and most women, are going to want to be with a man that's attracted to women. Not little teenager girls. All I said was that men who are normal can see attraction in a sexy 15 year old. I never said they should harass or date them if its against the law or moral decency. I know this threatens you to believe but I know it to be truth.
GorillaTheater Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 Without knowing what exactly the "hitting on" consisted of in this case, I can tell you how I'd react if some 35-year-old dumbass "hit" on my 16-year-old daughter. As a matter of fact, you can probably guess how I'd react. Douchebaggery at it's finest. 4
kaylan Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 (edited) It was heart felt I do feel sorry for closeminded people. What she wrote was condescending. Last I checked it wasnt close minded to be against adults sexually preying on minors. Luckily most adults arent ok with it. I feel men know men better than women. We as men are also more likely to suffer aggression from other men. As a young teenager I wasn't hit on regularly though one man did it on me once it was no ordeal. What we know is the hatred society feels toward young men.You cannot compare your experience to that of a young womans. Especially considering how men can in fact be sexual threats towards young women. Last I check adult women were not forcibly groping and raping young boys. If you understood the female perspective in this matter, you might see things more clearly. All I'm saying is it doesn't make you deranged to find 15 year old girls attractive. Most if not all normal men would find a pretty 15 year old girl attractive. If its a crime then its easy for in control men to look the other way. Most 15 yr old girls are not attractive in the way grown women are. Thats one side of it. The other point is something I said before. Just because some 15 yr old kids are objectively physically attractive, does not mean adults should be making moves on them. They are still maturing physically and mentally. Women do far more to sexualize young girls by reacting so positivly to young underage models. Thats fact. So why act like a man is deranged for seeing attraction in a 15 year old? LMAO...you are blaming women for the fact that young girls are used as models? Men run that industry and choose the models. Lets be real here. Those is power put out an image they want everyone else to digest, which then influences us all. So you cannot blame the influenced person because they are fed an image since birth. Those is power shape all facets of society. Take music for instance...if corporations wanted to, they could easily shift us toward a new popular music genre and people would buy it. Either way, if those is power didnt sexualize young boys and girls so much...people would be more tame about this. Like I said before though...its one thing to acknowledge that someone is attractive...its an entirely different thing to ACT on it. This isn't something I'd just be talking about while out and about. If I hear some wome complaining about dirty old men I'll just let it be. The thing is in this forum and this thread the OP has used charged words "hit on 15 year old" and "sexting"... but when asked for details she gave none. Just said strange stuff like if it was bad I guess the father would have killed him. Her information comes from an ex of his, not exactly a reliable source. Did she get shown the txt conversation. What does he say he did.Dont act like you dont know what sexting is. We can only go on the information given to us, and a grown 35 year old man sexting a teenager is creepy as hell. Anyone will tell you that. If he in fact did it, hes a creeper. However it is possible his ex was causing beef for no reason. And honestly, why would you have an ex speaking to your current partner? Thats asking for trouble. Hit on her? Like did he ask her out on a date and the girl said no. Who answers their fathers girlfriends phone and starts txting back and forth with a guy trying to get her father girlfriend... its all just so odd and there are no details. I agree the story is odd...but weve diverged from the story for a while anyways. Some folks seemed to have thought it would be no big deal if he was in fact sexting the 15 yr old. Thats what had the women here up in arms...the fact that some dudes defended it seemed idiotic to them. I agree we need to protect and educate our youth. The thing is this goes beyond that. We don't know what happened in this situation. Just finding a 15 year old attractive doesn't make you weird or crazy.I agree it doesnt make you crazy. But some dudes here were acting on it was not too big of a deal...when it is a big deal. Adults shouldnt be doing anything like that with kids...male or female. And it sickens me that this has become so widespread over the years in our school system. Let these kids grow up. Edited February 29, 2012 by kaylan 2
kaylan Posted February 29, 2012 Posted February 29, 2012 You've never met a registered sex offender before have you? Those guys rarely have trouble getting dates. Lying makes getting dates easier.
dreamingoftigers Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Getting hit on my guys that could have been my father (agewise) really made me feel disgusting when I was that young. It was similar to the dirty disgusting feeling that I would get when propositioned (for money) when I hitchhiked etc. I know that those situations put me at risk for that. BUT it was those men's responsibility not to be predatory and try to take advantage of my age and circumstance. As a much younger woman sometimes I would go along with doing things (or chat) that I didn't feel comfortable doing just because much older men would pressure me into it. (I have never had sex for money or allowed myself to be pressured into intercourse, however. Just for the Record.)
Disenchantedly Yours Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Me too DreamingofTigers. I never had anyone want to sleep with me for money but I did have situations when I was younger with older men that were predatory. At the end of the day, 15 or 40, these are not the kind of men most girls or women want to be with.
Negative Nancy Posted March 1, 2012 Posted March 1, 2012 Every guy I know has made a joke about jail bait or at least acknowledged that 18 isn’t some how a magical cut off for sex appeal. That is sick :sick: , it just shows men indeed are more perverted gender, i mean seriously, 15 years old, what is wrong with the world. soon its gonna be "normal" to find 10 year olds attractive. even when i see 18 year old boys i find nothing attractive about them, they are such babyfaces and the only response they evoke in my is the maternal instinct. i think a normal human development is finding people close to your own age attractive. i neither wanna date my son nor my father. what a sick world we're living in.
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