edwards99 Posted February 23, 2012 Posted February 23, 2012 hi all..just a question..i found out that my fiance who i thought had her status as in a relationship on fb had it actually as single...this really bothers me..there are lots of references to me and us though in her wall..and lots of pics and so on..she changed it 6 months ago during a big fight leading to me leaving for a week..but she could have changed it back.. shoudl this be an issue..we have had our share and its not the perfrct relationship..but we are trying..then i see this..and it is on my mind constantly..i know if i talk to her about it will sound accusatory and come out wrong no doubt leading to a fight..but why not say in a relationsionship..?? any opinions will be appreciated.
Philosoraptor Posted February 23, 2012 Posted February 23, 2012 So you've not mentioned it but let yourself stew in it? If it bothers you then you need to bring it up. Don't let your choice to stew in it for months to make you come off as angry.
Author edwards99 Posted February 23, 2012 Author Posted February 23, 2012 yea i am already angry..fuming really
Philosoraptor Posted February 23, 2012 Posted February 23, 2012 How can you be sure she even remembered that she forgot to change it back? If your wall and pictures are together then it may just be an oversight.
Author edwards99 Posted February 23, 2012 Author Posted February 23, 2012 to be honest im affriad she may say that but i dont think ill beleive her..she is on fb everyday..and updated other info since in that section...thanx for your words..i am checking and checking for hopefully something that will ease my anxsiety.
baguette Posted February 24, 2012 Posted February 24, 2012 Why don't you initiate a relationship status and tag her as your partner? It'll prompt her to accept or ignore the invitation and you'll know that she sees it. 1
Million.to.1 Posted February 24, 2012 Posted February 24, 2012 Why don't you initiate a relationship status and tag her as your partner? It'll prompt her to accept or ignore the invitation and you'll know that she sees it. ^^ I like this. Keep facebook world in facebook world. It's not a true representation of your real life relationship, so why bring it up in the real world as if it's a problem when maybe it isn't? Ask her on Facebook! It may be an over sight on her part, but maybe she is waiting for you to initiate the public statement. You said she is your fiance. Why not change yours to "engaged" and tag her as your "Fiance" ? If you've been engaged for a while then make a joke about Facebook not being up on the haps! She will probably be stoked and think it's romantic.
Author edwards99 Posted February 24, 2012 Author Posted February 24, 2012 we were once on fb as friends but my jealosy along time ago ended up with me being blocked..
Million.to.1 Posted February 24, 2012 Posted February 24, 2012 we were once on fb as friends but my jealosy along time ago ended up with me being blocked.. What?? I'm confused. Your fiance has you blocked on Facebook? hmmmmm. sounds like there are bigger issues at play here?
Author edwards99 Posted February 24, 2012 Author Posted February 24, 2012 as i said i had an issue with jealousy..2 yrs ago n she blocked me..
Million.to.1 Posted February 24, 2012 Posted February 24, 2012 (edited) that is retarded. you need to talk about this stuff then. maybe go and see a professional together. Seems your issues are pretty big, but blocking you doesn't help your paranoia. You need to talk about this. Edited February 24, 2012 by Million.to.1
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