effee Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 I broke up with my girlfriend about a month plus back, the first two weeks were total hell, I cried every night to sleep and couldnt function properly in my daily life, the weeks after that I felt myself healing. I began to miss her less and less and think of other things more often and I felt my life returning to normal. (Though I still think of her sometimes even now, but I try to force the thoughts out of my head) So anyway, she works in the same place as me, and we are still friends even after the breakup, the problem is.. I dont want to be friends with her, I dont want to know her anymore, I wish that she was just a stranger to me. I really don't want anything to do with her anymore, But the big question on my mind is how do I tell her? Do I directly tell her in a text msg, or in person that I dont want to know her anymore... Or should I gradually try to lose contact with her and avoid her at work?
capitald Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 The real question is why did you break up with her in the first place. It sounds like you are running from love.
UCFKevin Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 The fact that you work with her really f*cks up any chance of a normal postbreakup situation. I don't think you can really avoid talking to her without looking like a total bastard.
Blah Toolz Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 If you really want to stop coming into contact with her... then just stop receiving her phone calls, stop calling her, and try to only deal with her in work on a professional basis. Just talk to her if it comes up in a work related fashion... nothing extraneous. Like others said.... we don't know the details of the break-up... but if that's what you want to do, then I hope it works out for you.
Author effee Posted June 6, 2004 Author Posted June 6, 2004 Running from love? Oh my, no, I have enough self dignity not to go back to her, the lying cheating bitch 2 timed me and played me for a fool, today she got her boyfriend to send her to work and he parked right in front of everybody, she's a showoff, desperate for attention and full of lies. thats the breakup details pretty much, well final word is im never going back to her.
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