skins7778 Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 So Ive been talking to this girl who I have reconnected with after a long time. Things got physical extremely fast than slowed down over the past few weeks. There are also some baggage involved with her as she has two children and is currwntly going through a divorce. Knowing that allthat can be overwhelming I agreed to go slow. I really like this girl and for the past ten years have always considered her the one that got away so I want this to work. Unfortunately things have taken a turn for the worst and I pissed her off which I apologized for, she then told me she was still very angry and "needed time". Let me just say I dont think what I did was horrible, I didnt cheat or lie to her, just had a simple misunderstanding. I know for a fact now that Ive had a few days to reflect on things that I was too needy too fast and this probably gave her the opportunity to get out from me smothering her rather than true anger. My question is how do I play it when and if I do get a call or text message from her?
KathyM Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 So Ive been talking to this girl who I have reconnected with after a long time. Things got physical extremely fast than slowed down over the past few weeks. There are also some baggage involved with her as she has two children and is currwntly going through a divorce. Knowing that allthat can be overwhelming I agreed to go slow. I really like this girl and for the past ten years have always considered her the one that got away so I want this to work. Unfortunately things have taken a turn for the worst and I pissed her off which I apologized for, she then told me she was still very angry and "needed time". Let me just say I dont think what I did was horrible, I didnt cheat or lie to her, just had a simple misunderstanding. I know for a fact now that Ive had a few days to reflect on things that I was too needy too fast and this probably gave her the opportunity to get out from me smothering her rather than true anger. My question is how do I play it when and if I do get a call or text message from her? Well, you've already apologized, so that's enough of that. Just wait for her to call and talk to her on the phone, ask her how she's been, and make small talk. Don't suggest going out unless she suggests it. Then act a little cool when you do go out with her--not anxious, not needy, just cool.
LuckyClover Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 Plus, kids aren't baggage dude. If she heard you say that she'd wouldn't even talk to you again. Forget going slow or fast or what she likes or you like blah blah blah.. Just live your life and invite her in. No expectations. Just be yourself and be happy. Happiness is what attracts women(well and a job). Just let her in. Don't play games and tell her how you feel when it feels right to do so. You'll know, she'll hint it and let you know.
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